i fell in love with a man that i worked with but b/c of personal reasons we could not be together and well we kept seeing one another for about a year then we stopped then we began again till april of this year, i truely love him and i miss him like crazy and i know he feels this way towards me but because of the obsticles we can't be together, we have not seen each other for 4 months now,i know that he still cares for me and i know that i still love him. i was doing good for a whle but then i just started thinking about him, i keep having these dreams that he just keeps popping in and b/c of that it makes me miss him more, i have recently started losing my appetite i don't eat as much as i did, i will eat only like twice a day but not major meals,i haven't lost any weight though since this just started recently, i find myself crying for him at times and well i have these really bad headaches almost everyday at first i thought i was getting a cold, but nothing could this be depression?
2007-08-16 02:49:28 · 9 answers · asked by Loly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
STOP IT, FORGET ABOUT HIM............find someone else, if he wants to be with you he would be there, but he's not. Sounds like maybe he's married. (?) You can get over this it's been 4 months now give it another 4 months or more. Get someone else dear.
2007-08-16 03:38:36 · answer #1 · answered by jennajade 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you ask me, you are stressed out..depression is far too complex..what you need to do is to get a good counsellor and he/she will give you much better guidance than any online forum would do. If it gets to a point that you do not come out of it, visit a shrink. But please keep this as a last resort. If you personally ask me, you should come out of it and concentrate on your job /work. You can also take some part time hobbies like reading or writing. All the best.
2007-08-16 09:59:44 · answer #2 · answered by Milind Desai 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it could. At the very least, it's something you shouldn't ignore and hope will go away on its own. Go see your general practitioner to rule out any other physical causes, and if s/he can't find any, ask for a psychiatric referral. Even if it doesn't turn out to be depression, you might want to consider therapy anyway to help you break the thought cycle you're trapped in right now. Good luck.
2007-08-16 09:57:20 · answer #3 · answered by MM 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are going through depression. First of all you need to go to the doctor and talk to them and you need to also go see a counselor to help you through this rough patch in your life. It's a hard thing to go through, I've been there and before and it's not fun. Just remember that you can get through it. and things will get better. Just make sure you go talk to someone and maybe get on some medicine to help you relax and level you out. Hang in there, I promise it will get better.
2007-08-16 10:01:38 · answer #4 · answered by downtoearth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah go to your doctor. but i understand how you feel. i just went through that a couple weeks ago. i'm recovering. but anyway. i suggest you start working more. it really helps to take your mind off of him. also, try not to be alone with yourself too much. go out, have fun w. the girls or something.
2007-08-16 09:57:50 · answer #5 · answered by jadonam 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make an appointment with your doctor.
2007-08-16 09:54:40 · answer #6 · answered by Penelope Smith 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah its depression
Go to a doctor.
Now
2007-08-16 10:01:01 · answer #7 · answered by Ash 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone new ok???
2007-08-16 09:53:31 · answer #8 · answered by kim t 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wat kim t said is correct.
2007-08-16 09:56:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋