Ladies, Do you have a 'Mr Boomerang'?

Question

I was reading the Metro (Free newspaper distributed on the London underground) and I discovered the term 'Mr Boomerang'. This is guy you seem to always be breaking up with but for some reason you get back together with him and realise the very reason broke up with the 3 times before!! LoL

I have my very own Mr Boomerang and I wanted know other people's stories so I don't feel so pathetic because I seem be fallin back into his trap! And if anyone has gotten over their Mr Boomerang I would love to hear about that aswell!! :D

Answer 1

LMAO I WISH I COULD LEAVE THE ONE I HAVE

Answer 2

Sure do and it drives me crazy at times. They say its a thin line between love and hate, and I have found that to be true with my 'Mr. Boomerang'. We were together for a strong 4 years, and have been broken up for 2 1/2 years now. This time that we have not been together has been CRAZY, he can make me feel the best but also the worst, so its a constant battle between love/ hate. I love him to the bone, and hate to love him when Im upset. But at the end of the day, we always make it back to eachother because we share a real love, its not lust or greed or anything materialistic but I also know that we are not at a point where we can commit to each other so we just have to value our unique 'friendship' for now.

Answer 3

Yes. I had my Mr. Boomerang and we had a 2 year relantionship on and off. He always had this helpless attitude, it's not you it's me thing, or saying that he adores me but was not in love with me, and next minute he would regret it and saying that i have betwitched him. In the end, he broke up with me for the million time for no reason, just because he wasn't feeling it, and a week later he was contacting me again. But this time I turned off, and never let him back in my life. I discover that it wasn't love, and that he wasn't the ONE. I'm much happier now to find out that I loved him a lot, but we weren't meant to be, it's just because we always want someone that doens't love us completely, and we want to prove that we can change things around and we are powerful.
You better off with someone that love you completely. Good luck!

Answer 4

No...I don't have a Mr Boomerang, as I think that once you have left him or he has left you you should never go back...because you obviously ended it for a reason!

Answer 5

I can't seem to let mines go niether. But I think if i met someone else that trully wanted to be with me, I would not let him back in my life. I have done so much for mine that i keep thinking he will realize how good of a person i am and come be with me forever. THAT will never happen. But he knows exactly what to say to get next to me and make me temporarily forget what he did in the past. I personally fill like I am afraid of being alone and we get back together right at my weekest point on loniness.

Answer 6

Yep, they usually come with excitement, drama, fantastic sex, and the "he's no good for me but I like him" appeal. Unfortunately, they do not respect you enough to commit to anything. With my own Mr B'rang, he seemed to have a hold over me, suppose I wanted what I can't have. In the end, after an age, we were out one night + he was supposed to be buying me dinner in repayment for all that I had done for him. Yes, there he was, chatting up this bird by the bar knowing I could see him, so I picked up a full pint tapped him on the back, reminded him I was with him + chucked the pint in his face followed by another one. Enough was enough, he had no respect for me which was hurtful. He attempt to apologise gave me the green light to tell him what a pathetic piece of $hit he was. Never heard from him again. Good ridence!

Answer 7

I think we've all had our Mr Boomerang!!!!
In my situation I always said i wanted to break up with him because he was messing me about, but deep down i always hoped that he would beg for me to come back, and he did and he knew the game that I was playing. I felt special when he was trying to win me back, and then when we were back together it was special for a while. Even when he lied i knew he was lying, but the 'weak' part of me kept making excuses like 'he will change', 'he does love me', 'things will change' and the rest!!!
In the end the only way that i could stop this thing between me & my Mr Boomerang was to stop all contact. I cried with him (yes showed him i was weak, and told him that he was messing my life up, was really nasty with him, and pretended that I was seeing someone else'. Eventually he stopped contacting me, and as I was stubborn I didn't contact him. The time that he didn't contact me made me feel stronger and as he wasn't there to make excuses, it all made sense, every scenario that i had previously made excuses to him in the past made sense. He did like me, but he didn't like me to give me the respect that I deserve. It does hurt to think that he treated me that way, but the hurt does make you stronger, and as my mother always said, what doesn' break you makes you stronger'. I always think that us girls adore a bad boy that annoys the hell out of us, and we feel as though we are doing a good deed by trying to make them a better person, but if they wanted to change they would. Come on Robbie Williams is still single, he is a MR Boomerang and he is still single cos his exes have seen senses.
When i see or think of my Mr Boomerang i still smile, most probably i still like him (but maybe that is because we all want things that we can't have), but i feel more content and stronger being single, rather than still living in hope and hoping that my Mr Boomerang will change. Fact is girlies the only way you ca get over a Mr Boomerang is to stop all contact, be strong, avoid places that Mr Boomerang may go, learn to like yourself and do something that will make you happy, stay out of a relationship for a while, learn to get to know yourself, have fun, cry a lot and confide inyour friends. I may sound strong but I am still trying to get over My Mr Boomerang and it will take time, but one thing i'm determined not to go back there.

Good luck and i feel your pain xxxxxxxxxxxx

Answer 8

Life is too short to be wasting your time like this. I don't understand people that sit on the fence and procrastinate on making decisions such as this. If this guy is not making you completely happy, then, get out. A person needs to be happy being alone, not about being with somebody to do that.
Find your happiness, without it being about a man.
Good luck.

Answer 9

I have always believed that everyone deserves a second chance. People screw up and make mistakes. They have all had second chances with me. But I have always left it at. I think that I don't fall into that trap because I made a decision a long time ago that I want to be with someone who can learn and grow as a person in general and if they can't learn from their mistakes why would I want to waste my time.

Answer 10

since I am not desireable enough to go to even once, a Mr Boomerang is not a thing that will ever happen to me.

Answer 11

story of my life LOL
the more you take him back the more he knows "well, she took me back after I did x so I'll get away with that again.... "
get rid stay free for a while and think seriously if you really want him or not.
if he is repeatedly hurting you make yourself dump him and never take him back