My boyfriend and I have been together almost a year. Lately hes been talking to other girls, texting, hanging out, etc. Also, last night I tried cuddling up to him, kissing and what have you and he literally was pushing me away. Told me to go get my paycheck if I was going to go get it. Ah, should I ask him if hes still into me and how? What should I ask?
2007-08-16 02:35:43 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be honest and tell him that you feel he's being cold to you. Ask him what's wrong, and what you can do to help.
"The truth is like surgery: it hurts, but cures."
2007-08-16 02:39:48 · answer #1 · answered by bluedevil1642 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you 2 definitely need a talk!
First the talking to other girls.... its find to have female friend but if more than that or too frequent, that's not good.
I don't get the paycheck thing, but i guess it's between the two of you, but push you away.... weird
Invite him for coffee, pop, lunch to talk best in semi-public place, private so can tell you what going on, if anything goes wrong there will be other people...
Honey, take care of your heart, and maybe start to move on....
2007-08-16 02:46:37 · answer #2 · answered by s_chayer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this sounds bad, but dump him before he leaves you. He sounds like he is not really interested in you anymore. You deserve someone who is going to want to kiss and cuddle with you and not push you away. Plus why would you want to stay with a guy who needs and wants to hang out with all these other girls.
2007-08-16 02:43:25 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"All he wants is your virginity, if u still ahve it, and your money. just go sleep with one of his good friends."
Sleeping with "one of his good friends" would be an even stupider way to lose your virginity than to that guy. This is not a solution.
Anyhow,
Yes, he seemes to have lost interest in you and obviously is only in the relationship for another reason, you should level with this person and find out what it is, and THEN make your decision.
2007-08-16 02:46:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should sit him down and be real with him, letting him know how you noticed his behavior lately and that your wondering where the relationship is going. If he gives a bogus answer... bounce like a rubber ball leave his- confused a**.
2007-08-16 02:42:58 · answer #5 · answered by Miss Mami 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think i will stand 4 that thing, i m not going 2 ask him are u still love me or not?I will straitly tell him i see the love is over i better take my bags and hit the road.thats all,
2007-08-16 02:45:17 · answer #6 · answered by kidio2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time 2 move on.
2007-08-16 02:40:46 · answer #7 · answered by drillsgt77 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When someone pushes you away, its a clear indicator that they don't want you around. What should you ask? Um, how about, thanks for showing your true colors. I'm out of here?
That's what I would do.
2007-08-16 02:42:16 · answer #8 · answered by Rogue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what the matter is. Tell him what signals you feel you are receiving and don't understand why. You can't fix what you don't know is broke.
Good luck
2007-08-16 02:39:46 · answer #9 · answered by angelrose0105 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He definitely has a wandering eye. You should deal with this directly, say how you feel and why.
2007-08-16 02:40:42 · answer #10 · answered by tmc0037 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋