say you once were married to a hindu. Who cheated on you. You worked hard and helped paid his college and paid all the bills. You divorce.. You met a Muslim man married him.. This Muslim man treats you like a Queen loves you so much more then anyone he has loved. You do not have to work.. You do not have to clean.. Just being with him makes him happy..
Now your ex wants you back? Saying he loves you what would you do?
Would you go back or tell him off?
Would you be nice and let him pay back the 10,000 he owes you or would you ignore him?
2007-08-16 01:50:28 · 17 answers · asked by Olivia 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Lets say the woman converted to Islam.. Before she married but after she left the ex...
2007-08-16 01:51:16 · update #1
It is not me but a good friend... I am trying to understand how a women who has a man who adores her would even talk to her exhusband... Who did nothing but cheat on her and do drugs,.
2007-08-16 02:03:04 · update #2
Of what consequence is the religion element of this. Ex is a loser and made you miserable and owes you money. He is now using emotional/financial blackmail to get you back. New guy is making you happy in yourself and you found your own spirituality.
It wouldn't matter if ex was Muslim, Hindi, Buddhist, Christian, Atheist, Agnostic or even a Britney Spears fan - he's still a nasty assed loser. Sue him for the 10 grand and scare him off! Use the money to buy the nice guy and yourself something special.
2007-08-16 02:03:20 · answer #1 · answered by Quandary 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would be opening a Pandora's box leaving your husband that you are married to. Marriage is suppose to be til death do you part. You need to break ties with your ex unless you have children together. Chalk that 10grand up as a loose and live life to this man you say "love you so much more than anyone he has loved" That is some serious love!
2007-08-16 09:01:50 · answer #2 · answered by Team 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i remember these lines from a song " are you gonna stay with the one who loves you? or are you going back to the one you love?"
if i will be in your situation, i will stay with the one who loves, treats me like a queen and gives in to everything i say. with all the betrayal you've been to,you deserve to be happy. and no one has the right to hurt your feelings after all you have done for him. everybody deserves a second chance, yes, but not everybody should give second chances. you know, once a cheater, always a cheater. he betrayed you before, that makes him even more capable of doing it over and over.
you have already found someone who loves you and treats you the way you should be treated, why would you still go back to somebody who would just be pain in the ***?
2007-08-16 09:31:30 · answer #3 · answered by ericka 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a simple social situation and being a Hindu or Muslin has nothing to do with it. You have every right to be happy and thus continue with your life as you wish.However,on the flip side if are a wee bit smarter than your ex,then I would suggest that you try to extract money which he owes you and then tell him to go to HELL.
2007-08-16 09:04:57 · answer #4 · answered by brkshandilya 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say tell the Hindu ex-man to go screw himself. Have nothing to do with him.
Girl you have a husband that worships the ground you walk on, why are you even asking this question?
2007-08-16 08:59:35 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Nads♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is one little detail you have left out,do you still love your first husband? If the answer is yes,than you must ask yourself why.If you love him because he is difficult and doesn't love you as much as you love him,or your present husband seems to love you,than I suggest you break the pattern and remain with your current husband.Should your passion for your first husband be too intense to ignore,be forewarned that the previous situation,what caused you to divorce in the first place,most probably still exists and can cause another separation.
2007-08-16 09:00:33 · answer #6 · answered by Barbara D 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were happy with the Muslim man. (for the record i would never marry a hindu or muslim) i would stay with him
2007-08-16 08:55:31 · answer #7 · answered by im_not_who_i_was 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You dont even go there sister,you have married another man whom cares for you deeply and you want to trade him in for a #### You have got to get real...
2007-08-16 09:02:57 · answer #8 · answered by Lightworker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should tell the new husband and he'll strap a bomb on one of his many illegitimate daughters and offer an exploda-a-gram to the ex.
2007-08-16 08:57:16 · answer #9 · answered by Mawkish 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its sound like your being Used by Both....because could be that you are very nice and believe anyone. be careful of Men who same to much to soon..one who loves you really see you for what you are and not what He can make you be....
2007-08-16 08:59:43 · answer #10 · answered by babo1dm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋