After 5 months of exclusive dating (his request), my "boyfriend" and I got into an argument because I expressed a concern about our relationship. He was the model boyfriend for a while, always called when he said he would - at least until recently. Even the sex was awesome! But he's never called me his girlfriend, claims he can't be in an emotional relationship (though his actions showed otherwise), & has suddenly started playing hot & cold. We're both 25. I asked that he start being more consistent, & even offered ways we could make it happen together. But he freaked out & ended the relationship. This was a huge blow to my ego. I thought addressing the problem would help solve it. I never expected him to end the relationship over this! What happened here? Was he afraid of confrontation? commitment? Was he just ambivalent? I'm so confused.
2007-08-16 00:57:03 · 9 answers · asked by MiniDJ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like he didnt know what he wanted. . . he at first wanted to have a serious relationship. . .but then he changed his mind and wanted to be a player.
its not your fault, he was just being a di*k
2007-08-16 01:04:53 · answer #1 · answered by Blondie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him dump him,
this might sound cheesy, i watched one tree hill, and there's an episode of you know, exclusive and nonexclusive relationship, well guess what? this relationship thing just SUCKS! those are for high schoolers, not for you.
i know i might be young, but heck.
and u dont need to be with a guy who wouldnt even want to call you his girlfrnd,
my advice, pick up the phone, dump him.
altho he had dumped you first, well what the hell, dump him.
and cool it, relax, enjoy life, a guy who loves you more than anything will show up, sooner or later. and u'll have the time of your lives :)
2007-08-16 01:05:22 · answer #2 · answered by ndra 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Having sex with each other within 5 months is kind of fast, isn't it ?
He may have moved on to the next gal who will bed him.
2007-08-16 01:04:51 · answer #3 · answered by kanina 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it rather is solid which you broke up with him, yet you ought to forgive if he's undesirable and tries to wreck you lower back and yeah of direction pass to the police. If he's rather undesirable enable God take care of this. God says love thy neighbor, so i think of you ought to be a solid Samaritan and forgive you will get rewarded on the tip. God be with you
2016-11-12 11:34:41 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As chris rock has said
If you are going out with someone for 5 months and you haven't met their family or friends... you are not their girlfriend
2007-08-16 01:12:55 · answer #5 · answered by Baud2death 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he didn't want his friends to know 'cause he'd be embarrassed. Not that there's anything to be embarrassed about, but some guys are like that.
2007-08-16 01:11:36 · answer #6 · answered by Greco 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is scared of comitment or maybe he was hurt in the past and is really scared.he may need space to figure it out,
2007-08-16 01:04:05 · answer #7 · answered by freeflow 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Run very fast from this one
2007-08-16 02:11:39 · answer #8 · answered by whymewhynow 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is using you for sex =(
2007-08-16 01:03:48 · answer #9 · answered by Its been a while............. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋