i am 19 and i want to do complete sex with my boy friend.can i do this?

Question

i am 19 years old and my boy freind also.we want to do complete sex.can we do?will i not get pregnant?if we will use condom then will it be fine?

Answer 1

Okay, Just by you asking such a question "complete sex" sounds immature. If you don't know how to protect your self and your already 19 you need to speak with your family doctor and get educated on birth control and prevention from sexually transmitted diseases. And whats up with the question "can we do it" of course you "can" everyone can. We cant answer that for you unless you would like us to stand there and hold your hand in the process, To make this quick I think you are not ready, if you were you would be doing it and instead of waiting to hear from a bunch of people. to get their opinion. When your ready your not going to wait on anyone your going to be in the moment and its just going to happen.

Answer 2

What a question!!
I am sure you had at least some sexual education in your home or school or at least from friends...
You are talking about having sex and it seems, that you don´t know how to prevent an undesired pregnancy.
In the first place, use a condom and use it always and no matter what your boy friend says, if he doesn´t want to use it, you keep your legs together!!
Because a condom is the only way to protect you against sexual diseases like Hepatitis or Aids. And yes, it protects against pregnancy as well.
I hope you are really mentally ready to have sex with him and you don´t just do it, because you are expected to do it.
Good luck and take care-

Answer 3

If u love the guy think like this.....u surely will have sex sooner/later before/after marriage for the first time. So whether u two stay together 4ever or not u know that atleast you had physical relation with the one you loved-SINAS(Sex Is Not A Sin). Yet once you go ahead & the guy turns out to be a jerk you will have a tough time in letting go the relationship and so will feel tormented or land up in bed with few others (maybe do drugs too) & end up getting married. Also the chance of that jerk stalking you after you are married will always remain. Well, this is out of the experience I had from my first affair lasting 6 yrs, the girl is now married & I single......BUT regardless of anything I wish to say 'Go For It'.

Answer 4

Any time you have sex you risk getting pregnant - condom or not. If you really think you are ready for the consequences if you do end up getting pregnant then go ahead. You can do more to decrease your chances of not getting pregnant by not having sex around the time you are ovulating - usually 2 to 2 1/2 weeks after your period (each girl is different, though). There still is no guarantee, but the time when you could get pregnant is right after you ovulate. Good Luck!

Answer 5

Use a condom. Talk to your doctor or sexual health clinic if you're not 100% sure about what protection to use. Why not consider going on the contraceptive pill? But you also need to protect yourself against sexually transmitted infections if your boyfriend has had intercourse before.
Remember the condom is about 99% effective against pregnancy if used correctly, so it doesn't split.
Using a combination of a condom and the contraceptive pill should prevent pregnancy:)

Just remember, relax and enjoy!

Answer 6

Hmmmm.. nothing wrong,, u can always prevent pregnancy by using condoms, but be sure to use it,, otherwise it will be a real problem,, but dont make it a habit of having sex frequently , its just a pleasure and just to enjoy some times at this age,, bcos after marriage or when u r in mid 20s u will really loose interest in this,, think of it,,

Answer 7

You mean intercourse I take it? Nothing is fail proof. A condom will help towards preventing you catching a sexually transmitted disease but people have still fallen pregnant. To avoid getting pregnant, you need to go on the contraceptive pill. Another thing, think very seriously about getting that intimate with a guy.

Answer 8

hey dotn do it plz i know that u r going to use condoms but still there are only 98% of change of not being preg. that guy will not have to face anything but u will. sex is a thing that u wanna do it again if it was successful for the first time. but later that 2% will damage ur image in the society. plz think over it abt ur parents and all and then decide. u can do sex but not completly plz that will be harmful for u not for that guy.

Answer 9

If you do complete sex, you will repeat the same every day, if you will not agree your BF will tempted you to have sex, you cannot stop his egoism. so have restriction on this, do oral sex only thats a safe method. But by doing sex before marriage will lose charm of after marriage sex, Keep something new for your marriage.

Answer 10

well, if it;s safe sex then ok, but make sure he is not havin hiv/aids, as it spreads like anything, if he does not then have safe sex with all protection, if u dont want safe then, be prepared to be pregnant before u marry & face all problems, socially, and yes if u select abortion which is not adviced else u may have some problem after marraige when u want kids!