Well i keep thinking that this girl was my friend we keep talking abt many things but im not really sure now. Mainly because:-
1. She never talks to me anymore ( I have to keep talking to her).
2. She asked me to do favors for her like she tells me to do something and i try to be nice to her.
3. She always has guy friends around her all the time and flirts around with all of them.
4. Asked her out because i though she liked me by the way she acted b4 but she laugh and said that we should be friends because she has respect 4 me.
5. She avoided me once while walking she saw me from the distance and never said anything.
6. Got jealous on many occasions when this other girl was flirting alot with me even though she already has a bf and the girl was sad for a couple of days. didnt wanna to talk to her due to the other friend getting angry at me.
Pfft so much for being a friend.. Why did she do this... is she just trying to prevent me from haveing a gf? or am im being used?
2007-08-15 23:52:46 · 11 answers · asked by Glebo 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
please note that this girl said to me at one point that i was different from other guys and she told me that i was like a special case....
2007-08-15 23:54:11 · update #1
Thankss for letting me know guys and girls. This wasnt the only time i was used. I was used twice b4 and should have seen this comming but i let it slide.
2007-08-16 01:05:44 · update #2
We are complicated creatures glebo. That is one of the reasons God created Adam first...to give him courage and strength to deal with women!
I think you should ask her what her problem is! Sounds like she is manipulating you big time. You are the "keep him around just in case" type of friend, no offence, and shame on her for how she treats you!
Be blunt with her. Ask her why the hell she treats you as she does? Tell her you have had enough of the way she treats you, and you are moving on if things don't change. If she truly is your friend and wants to remain one, suggest she open up to you as to why she does the things she does :)
2007-08-16 00:08:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's say people are emotionally mature from their upbringing or by studying Emotional Intelligence or latest teachings on emotions or they are emotionally immature and ignorant of emotions, the case for probably most. So they, either sex, don't know that love is within us to tap and instead take crumbs here and there trying to survive. You haven't given up in disgust yet so they hang around occaisionally as you have some inner resources. If you get more emotional inteligence off the web like at trans4mind all free, you will stay away from them not needing anyone. Then you can see another mature person, one in a hundred, but you will be better off then them too, from reading. You can use your intuition to pick out the best, none too good at that point, but the rest of the needy ones will flock around so you will have to duck and dodge. When someone dodges you in the hall they have just gotten a bone that won't last and don't want to share. Pretty simple, huh. People know so little of emotions that you can be real good real quick. It's like any intelligence, though, learning is a life long affair. One caution, be careful when operating a vehicle or heavy equipment until you get used to the ego high and try, oh, try to be humble when you get the power. The world needs love so much that when you show it to them it travels aroung the world and heals everyone a little. It's how we can get the planet working again. We also have to teach it so some don't drain the rest. luv
2007-08-16 02:34:44 · answer #2 · answered by hb12 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are selfish and immature and only think about themselves. This can often be the case with a teenage girl who is physically attractive. She is just parroting things she heard other girls say about guys. People change a lot in the transition from child to adult. Maybe there is nothing you can do and your friendship is over or at least on pause for a while.
2007-08-16 00:02:30 · answer #3 · answered by Daniel H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a girlfirend and move on you are her fall back guy the guy she wants to keep around when she is single and alone. She is using you. Next time she gets angry tell her to put up or shut up
2007-08-15 23:57:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
like her i'm a girl and I think it's just proves that girls are sometimes unpredictable. I myself don't know why I act this way or that towards those boys. maybe it's just because of some reaons we ourselves can't explain. I think your still young to talk about that so it's just good if you'll still treat her as a friend.
2007-08-16 00:02:10 · answer #5 · answered by sowkie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a million) the gentle thoughts and delightful shyness crap is a stereotype and does not practice to each woman 2) its exciting to act like a guy. adult men have much less standards and inhibitions so its additionally much less annoying 3) in a male ruled society, women persons who act greater like adult men are observed greater and are taken care of with greater appreciate
2016-10-15 12:45:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually,i ought that you people need to be friends and nothin else.it actually hurts to you on the way that she behaves towards you at times.I think you need to talk to her and explain your feelings towards the friendship openly.If not so avoid her.
2007-08-16 00:01:26 · answer #7 · answered by edel m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she was playing with you for a while and now she is done. Move on. Ignore her too. SHe only wants you when she can't have you.
2007-08-15 23:58:32 · answer #8 · answered by Gone fishin' 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shall not get butter churning rotten milk.
2007-08-16 00:01:20 · answer #9 · answered by sv 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she is a playa and didnt want to break ur heart.
2007-08-15 23:59:26 · answer #10 · answered by concerned girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋