I love my girl friend but we having problems for the past 2 years since the day I found out she has an affair with someone, I tried very hard to accept it and we get back together but 6 months ago she start treated me very cold, because of this we always quarrel, then I started to realise that maybe we should break up, althougt I still love her because I dont want to gets ... but she refuse and said that she still love me. Since then, I getting very down and do not know wat to do, a girl come to me, someone who admire me for a year and I slept with her tat night. We have an affair with her about 5 months, I can feels that she really love me very much and deeply but to be onus i love my girl friend. I dont want to hurt both of them, what should I do?
2007-08-15 23:25:19 · 16 answers · asked by alwaysbme 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
man you are doing the same **** she did to you but you are doing it to 2 of them now... 2 wrongs dont make a right it just causes more unnecessary drama... but i do know what you mean you can NEVER really forgive that person ever again for doing that to you... just do what you think you should do
2007-08-15 23:33:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey,it seems that both of you are not faithful to each other.The fact that she has left you does not give you the permission to sleep with another girl.At the beggining she seemed to love you but seems that she was only playing with your psychology.I understand how you feel and i guess that you made a point of sleeping with another girl to get out of stress.Put it right that although you did that,you will not get out of it.Be allitle be realistic and talk to her openly.You can remain pals and look for another girlfriend.You heve to make your own decision.Keep fit and enjoy yor life.
2007-08-15 23:42:44 · answer #2 · answered by edel m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST OF ALL....if you really loved your gf you wouldnt have cheated on her. Even if she did that to you. SECONDLY....i dont know why you took her back after she cheated on you. They hardly ever change. and THIRD....Move on. There are girls everywhere man. and if you dont know what to do as to who to break up with....stop seeing both of them and start new. Actually....break up with them both and just relax on the dating. If you jump too soon into another relationship, it wont work. No matter how much you want it too because your ex gf will stil be in your mind. since you love her and all.
2007-08-15 23:29:44 · answer #3 · answered by fender_steve87 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok i wouldnt usually agree with this and your girlfriend does deserve the truth.You could break up with the person your having the affair with and commit tottally to ur current girlfriend.Then you could tell her about your affair.She cant get that mad becasue she did the same thing.
2007-08-15 23:29:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jux tell her(ya galfriend) the truth if u truly luv her and then if she chooses to forgive u fine but if she refuses and then wants a break up go ahead coz there is much to life.
2007-08-15 23:37:25 · answer #5 · answered by Gabbey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay so you have to decide who you want to be with, your girlfriend, or the girl you just slept with? Personally I don't think you should be with your girlfriend - Once a cheat, always a cheat. Mind you... your the same, maybe you deserve eachother.
2007-08-15 23:28:29 · answer #6 · answered by 12345 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough spot, whatever choice you make will hurt one. However in the end see who makes you happy and go with that, to lead one of them on is a greater cruelty
2007-08-15 23:30:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't be sleeping around, If I was you , the next time you break up-unless you already did-just be good friends & keep it that way. (my ex-gf, who I've known for several yrs, has been my best friend for a few yrs now & it will stay that way, cause we weren't meant for dating-we had differences.)
2007-08-15 23:34:36 · answer #8 · answered by strange-artist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with the one you love most. You have to hurt one of them there is not other way believe me. If you don't you will have huge problems in the future. Hurt the one that hurt you... Believe me its the only way to do it. I know...
2007-08-15 23:31:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for the one who admires you and loves you,i dont think your g/f is worth you.
2007-08-15 23:29:42 · answer #10 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋