As a woman, do I need to accept that I will be left in my 40s or 50s for a younger woman? It is so depresssing to think that you can love someone for years, help him, etc... and then it ends because he wants to find youth again. What do you do to prepare for this? It makes me sick thinking about it. Do I have to accept that I will be without a man?
2007-08-15 22:38:37 · 10 answers · asked by fleursauvage 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's crazy talk. Who says that is inevitable? Hell, by that age, who is really wanting to start all over? I know you inside and out by then. Why would I want to go mess with some girl half my age, and deal with her making me feel insecure? I'd always be waiting for her to leave me for some other guy, cause karma is a b%tch. No, personally I'd rather stay with my lady and continue to grow old together. Wow!!! My kids and grand kinds would hate e or any other guy for leaving their mom and grandma for some young chick. What dumb old dude would want to go through that?
2007-08-15 22:48:02 · answer #1 · answered by BOB C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly, I know a lot of middle-aged married men (40s-50s) which includes my father and my friends' fathers went through that stage of having another woman (not necessarily younger). I guess it is a phase in a man's life... the mid-life crisis as they say. Most of the time they still end up back with their wives. There are a few who left their wife for the other. Still, there are a few who stayed faithful... let's just hope we end up with those.
2007-08-16 16:28:31 · answer #2 · answered by rogue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You are totally wrong. A few men do so but a majority do NOT leave their so long loved wife for any younger one (definitely a slut) because older the wife, more loving and caring she is, which you already are. So you need not worry about it.
2007-08-15 22:47:10 · answer #3 · answered by sv 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes they do. My father did even though my mother was a pro s...t! But all the Men feel attracted to younger girls...it is a fact. Nothing will ever change this.
Sad but true!
2007-08-15 22:43:10 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no of course not, if you really love each other you should be able to make it work, its more than just how you look. But dont just let yourself go either. I think its good to stay healthy and in shape even as you get older. But me i have a thing for older women anyways :D
2007-08-16 01:09:38 · answer #5 · answered by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way it can never happen, but again under some conditions:
1. you must give the man what he wants , love care affection, helping hand and sex at all ages.
2. you must me nice and kind at what ever age you are.
then no problem, i have seen couple at the age of 60 having a good romance in the park....lol
2007-08-15 22:45:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No if a man loves his wife he will not leave her just because she is old. My aunt has been married for 30 years and they are still happy!
2007-08-15 22:41:30 · answer #7 · answered by <Carol> 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That absurd. You're selling most men short for the failures of a few.
2007-08-15 22:42:00 · answer #8 · answered by Penelope Smith 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
oh...dont be negative about love...a guy who truly loves you will not do such a thing..be optimistic! smile always..:)
2007-08-15 22:44:25 · answer #9 · answered by kagome in blue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you find the right man, he wont leave you.
2007-08-15 22:42:14 · answer #10 · answered by John 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋