advice from other born again Christians. My long distance, significant other, was pretty disillusioned by his myspace last week, due to some strange experiences with people, and then one blocking him for a crazy reason. On Friday he sent us all a bulletin complaining about Christian "fairweather" friends and telling the above story about the person who blocked him. On Sunday he told me he had decided to delete his myspace as there was no point in having it. I went to see if his space was still in existence, for sentimental reasons, adn it was and to my shock he has removed me from his myspace and has blocked me from contacting him on it. Four days later, it's still there and I am not :o(
2007-08-15 22:16:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I have to add that in all the time i've known him, he has been honest and straightforward. He's the type who isn't afraid to call a spade a spade. He's very outspoken on "hot potato" issues such as abortion, etc. This makes it all the more puzzling.
2007-08-15 22:55:40 · update #1
OUTCOME: I emailed him and he wrote back saying he is really busy with things and doesn't have time for internet. He is sorry it isn't working out and isn't able to be in a relationship with anyone. He hopes I understand...
2007-08-18 07:39:00 · update #2
Dear Sunflower,
My advice would be that if there is a way for you to contact him outside of myspace that you do that- just so you can clarify the situation and have some sort of resolution. i agree with some of the others who have answered that this man is not the man that God has for you.
As a believer you probably don't want a man who sends out bulletins complaining about "fairweather Christian friends" and is seemingly not being straightforward with you. i might give him a little bit of the benefit of the doubt with all the strange stuff that happened to him- but i think the situation gives you a lot of insight into his spiritual maturity and his ability to lead you spiritually down the road.
For the sake of your own sanity- hopefully you'll be able to ressolve everything so you aren't left to wonder. Sorry to hear about your unfortunate situation - and just trust that God works out all things for the good for those who love him and are called according to his purpose (Rom. 8:28).
Hope that helps. Kindly,
Nickster
2007-08-15 22:42:19 · answer #1 · answered by Nickster 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Can you message him? Sorry, though I'm on myspace I don't know anything about that particular feature. If you can, message him about it. Maybe it's an oversight. If you can't, is there another way to contact him? If he's a significant other, is there a way you can call him, text him, email him, ask a mutual friend, talk to a family member that would know the situation?
Short of him accidentally blocking you, I'm so sorry to say, he may have taken an easy way out of your relationship. Though it doesn't make sense that he wouldn't have just told you, that would be the most logical conclusion to his actions.
2007-08-16 06:04:33 · answer #2 · answered by iheartbayley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That really sucks. I'm sorry to say this, but chances are he's ending the relationship. If you have another way of contacting him, do so and ask him to explain things to you, that you deserve that much at least.
Good luck hon. Hope it works out somehow.
2007-08-16 05:28:08 · answer #3 · answered by Top Alpha Wolf 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you need to pray for the real man that God has intended you to be with.This one surely dont give off the vibs to be the one unless some miracle happens to him like real quick.He is using you.
2007-08-16 05:27:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget this guy. Do not contact him. I would block HIM from contacting you.
I'm sorry he has lied to you and treated you so badly.
2007-08-16 05:21:44 · answer #5 · answered by batgirl2good 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Sunflower, I hate to tell you this but I am afraid he is telling you to move on....pray about this....God has the perfect man for you but I am afraid it is not this one....be patient.
2007-08-16 05:21:25 · answer #6 · answered by Godb4me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...I'm having a hard time trying to find your "question"...you make a lot of statments and express a lot of "feeling"... Perhaps your answer is found in Scripture.....
2007-08-16 05:28:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give your broken heart to Jesus. he fixed mine good as new!
2007-08-16 05:24:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋