What went wrong?

Question

Ok so this myspace girl caught my eye. Of course I wasn't planning on getting a date with her..yet. I wanted to talk to her for awhile and maybe become her friend and she also knew a person I know a little.

Anyway, you need to scroll down to the bottom and read your way up. Yeah thats how myspace

Anyway tell me what went wrong...



From:
Date: Jul 14, 2007

thank u now bye

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From: Aaron
Date: Jul 14, 2007 8:26 PM


ok...."Sad face"

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From:
Date: Jul 14, 2007 8:25 PM


juss stop typein me

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From: Aaron
Date: Jul 14, 2007 8:24 PM


Im sorry, did I offend you..?

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From:
Date: Jul 14, 2007 8:24 PM


i dnt want 2 talk 2 u no more so jus leave me alone please r im have my boyfriend beat ur ***

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From: Aaron
Date: Jul 14, 2007 8:22 PM


What do you mean..??

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From:
Date: Jul 14, 2007 8:12 PM


y r u still riten me

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From: Aaron
Date: Jul 14, 2007 8:10 PM


I see.


(After this message I got another message by a guy name Jeff saying)
" i ment leave my cousin alone. she already got a man fewl "
And than a few min after I got this message. The girl deleted me. I was confused but pretend it didn't happen and just respond to her email with " I see"

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From:
Date: Jul 14, 2007 7:45 PM


alrite



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From: Aaron
Date: Jul 14, 2007 7:41 PM


Hey, how was your day?


(Later on I send her a messaga)

From:
Date: Jul 14, 2007 2:10 PM

yea but i wish i was already out

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From: Aaron
Date: Jul 14, 2007 3:14 PM


Cool

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From:
Date: Jul 14, 2007 2:10 PM


YEP IM GOIN 2 B A SENIOR

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From: Aaron
Date: Jul 14, 2007 2:10 PM


Heh, anyway. You still go to school?

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From:
Date: Jul 14, 2007 2:05 PM


OOH WE WILL

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From: Aaron
Date: Jul 14, 2007 2:05 PM


Yeah Yeah. lol well hope you two have a good time.

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From:
Date: Jul 14, 2007 2:03 PM


ALRITE JUS CANT WIT N TELL MY MAN CUMS OVER LATA

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From: Aaron
Date: Jul 14, 2007 2:03 PM


Who said i was worried about you? lol.

Anyway, how was your day?

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From:
Date: Jul 14, 2007 1:57 PM


ANYWAYS Y U WORRIED ABOUT ME

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From:
Date: Jul 14, 2007 1:50 PM


I don't believe thats all you do for fun XD

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From:
Date: Jul 14, 2007 12:58 PM


HANG OUT WIT MY SIS AND HER B/F AND MY B/F

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From: Aaron
Date: Jul 14, 2007 12:43 PM


So, what do you like to do for fun?

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From:
Date: Jul 14, 2007 12:19 PM


YEA I GEUSS

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From: Aaron
Date: Jul 14, 2007 12:18 PM


Yeah cool...

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From:
Date: Jul 14, 2007 12:16 PM


I NO I LIKE MY PROFILE 2 IT REPRESENTS MINE AND MY MAN RELATIONSHIP.....

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From: Aaron
Date: Jul 14, 2007 12:13 PM


Thank you. I like your profile

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From:
Date: Jul 14, 2007 12:10 PM


UUM NEVER MIND


( I assume she had trouble adding me for some reason but than figured it out)
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From: Aaron
Date: Jul 14, 2007 12:09 PM


huh? how come?

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From:
Date: Jul 14, 2007 12:08 PM


I CANT

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From: Aaron
Date: Jul 14, 2007 12:06 PM


Ok

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From:
Date: Jul 14, 2007 12:06 PM


UUM HOLD ON

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From: Aaron
Date: Jul 14, 2007 12:05 PM


uhh is that a yes or a no? and I can't add you. Can you send me a request please?

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From:
Date: Jul 14, 2007 12:04 PM


I DNT CARE

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From: Aaron
Date: Jul 14, 2007 12:04 PM


Wanna be myspace friends?

From: ChArLoTtE
Date: Jul 6, 2007
YEA I DO

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From: Aaron
Date: Jul 6, 2007 11:06 PM


oh I see lol. So you know Jennifer?

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From:
Date: Jul 6, 2007 11:05 PM


17

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From: Aaron
Date: Jul 6, 2007 11:03 PM


How old are you?

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From:
Date: Jul 6, 2007 11:01 PM


YEA

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From: Aaron
Date: Jul 6, 2007 10:59 PM


Well, im sorry if it bothers you but Im afriad we don't know each other, at least...not yet? lol you know, hoping...we can..? maybe? :P lol

Did you go to del campo?

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From:
Date: Jul 6, 2007 10:53 PM


who r u do i no u and thank u

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From: Aaron
Date: Jul 6, 2007 10:48 PM


Whats up? Im also one of a kind lol

So you know Jennifer? :P I just wanted to drop by and say hi cuz I think...well...if you the girl in the middle, than yeah. Your pretty cute lol.

Answer 1

It went wrong right here: "I NO I LIKE MY PROFILE 2 IT REPRESENTS MINE AND MY MAN RELATIONSHIP....." She was trying to tell you that she's already taken, so she wasn't interested. You didn't get the hint.

Honestly, do you really want to be associated with someone who has the grammatical skills of a third grader? I sure hope not. You seem more intelligent than that.

Answer 2

Dude, you come across way too desperate. Too many lol's too. Makes you look like a git.

Here's a hint: she never asked you anything about you. The only questions she's asking is about why you are mailing her. This means she was never interested to begin with.

Then this:

'Well, im sorry if it bothers you but Im afriad we don't know each other, at least...not yet? lol you know, hoping...we can..? maybe? :P lol'

How desperate can you sound? You should never have asked her to be myspace friends. You should've baited her. Work on her so in the end she proposes it. And dude, don't fool yourself: she knew exactly how to add you. She just didn't want to because it is totally unclear what you are after exactly. Combine this with the natural scepticism of women towards men and you are bound to fail.

Sorry man. Better luck next time. I'll give you a tip: if you want to have a conversation with a woman, ask OPEN questions. That means questions that cannot be answered by yes or no. It forces her to tell you something. Try it in real life first.

Answer 3

I don't think you did anything wrong, per say. You just might have come on a bit too strong for this girl. Age 17 or not, she doesn't seem very intelligent and she seemed to get lost in your conversation. Also, when a girl shoves the fact that she has a boyfriend in your face more than once, its a general sign that you should back off. Its a girl's greatest defense.

Hope this helps..

Answer 4

Hi Aaron, well after reading this I don't think she ever had any interest in becoming your friend. Her answers are short and she mentions numerous times that she has a bf. Perhaps she is not the type of girl to enter into conversations with guys because she does not want to give them the idea that anything more could develop.

I understand that you have a mutual friend, but that does not obligate her in any way to communicate with you.

So, my short answer is that nothing went wrong- she was merely giving you one word answers to be polite. It seemed clear all along that she was not acting friendly towards you, so nothing changed.

There are lots of nice girls on My Space- I hope that you find one that is interested in becoming your friend and replies with more than terse, monosyllabic answers.

Answer 5

Myspace is kinda scary, teens have to be on the lookout for creeps and stuff...it just seemed creepy for a random dood to talk to a 17 chick over myspace.

Answer 6

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Answer 7

You just kept asking her these common question's as if you knew her, even after she told she had a boyfriend, so it creeped her out... shouldn't do that with a girl, and next time ask a girl for her AIM screen name... so you don't have to go through that back and forth sh*t again.

So yea, I think you just annoyed the crap out of her lol, because your questions led to nowhere.

Answer 8

she was talking to you as a friend but could tell you wanted more, and it seemed a bit stalker like (sorry). she made it clear she had a boyfriend and wasnt interested. plus you mentioned meeting a some point maybe that scared her off.

Answer 9

didn't you get the message? cause she already has a boyfriend so she wants you to leave her alone..erm..she doesn't like you.and your obviously hitting on her."Of course I wasn't planning on getting a date with her..yet. I wanted to talk to her for awhile and maybe become her friend"- I dont believe that..

Answer 10

She just seemed rude and immature. Plus she can't spell and you can...find someone that isn't rude and has a bit of maturity.