i just started liking him again 4 days ago but i've been liking him on and off for about 3 yrs. i didn't really become as good of friends with him till he came to my school last year (freshmen year). Over the summer, he had a gf but they had to break up b/c her mom is very strict and wudnt let her date him and her mother hates him. i was just talking to him and he says he promised her that he wud stay single and not look at any other girls. i dont think he has any idea that i like him. he kept talking about how he always finds a great girl but it never works out but i cudnt help thinking i cud be the right girl. shud i tell him? or wait till he has moved on from his summer gf but still risk he cud start liking sumone else. i can still be there for him and maybe then he'll notice me in more than just a friend way. hes always been flirty with me and he may have liked me a few times but nothing ever happened and i never actually found out if he liked me for sure. just suddle hints.
2007-08-15 21:55:48 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its just so hard when he starts talking about how he might have a crush on one of my friends and i should talk to her about him or something. I wonder what he would say if i told him i like him but ive never been one of those girls whose rly brave and can just tell him. it wud be hard for me. any suggestions for me to slip it in that i may like him? give him some hints or something?
2007-08-15 21:58:16 · update #1
im 15 by the way
2007-08-15 22:06:38 · update #2
some guys are dense and will never get the hint. youre better off just telling him straight up. if youre afraid of rejection, dont make it sound really serious. when youre having a good conversation or something, joke around about "what if you two ever became bf/gfs", see if gets the hint there. if not just tell him. if you dont do it now, you might lose your chance and youll end up regretting not telling him. you dont want to wonder "what if" forever if you have this chance. sometimes taking a friendship a step further makes things awkward. so hopefully if he doesnt share the same feelings, he'll understand and wont be an aass about it. good luck!
2007-08-15 22:05:45 · answer #1 · answered by JIGGLY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm feeling for you there, so I'll return your story with one of my own and an answer. I had a buddy of mine who was in your position, he liked this girl and they were really close and I mean this guy loved her..he wanted to be with here forever and ever. So I told him after many attempts to get up his courage, when you're hanging out, just grab her shoulders and kiss her mate and see what she does. Two weeks later they were together, that was three years ago and they're still happy as can be, take the plunge my dear, it is almost always worth it if the feeling is true, search yourself. You sound young but then so were they, it takes time but through all of your swirling emotions you will feel a pang that is different, if it represents him then go for it. I'm rooting for ya kid.
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2007-08-16 05:04:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you truely love ur best friend. you know what to do. if you have doubts wait. but if ur totally sure, you know what to do. And for slipping it in. Try while he's in a good mood. Like while you 2 are having a good discussion. Than Take his hand and tell him ur true feelings.
2007-08-16 05:02:42 · answer #3 · answered by Dictator of Hate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex-gf is now my best friend-& I'm happy about it-we have alot in common but as of a relationship, things didn't work, I miss dating her sometimes but I can't be her "steady date" & she wouldn't either, but we still go out to dinner occationally but just a friendly date-no romance. (anyways, it may be best if both of you remain good friends but that's up to you)
2007-08-16 05:08:28 · answer #4 · answered by strange-artist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋