Is there a way a man can get help if he is abusive in relationships?
is this true?
If he can hit you once, he can hit you again (or even kill you)?
what do you think about controlling men.
2007-08-15 21:49:05 · 8 answers · asked by Deja 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like you need serious advice, so I'll lose my usual humor for a moment:
I have abused. I can tell you from experience that a man CAN get help, but if he doesn't get help and be SERIOUS about it, he WILL repeat and it WILL escalate.
The state of Iowa has a Batterers Education Program. It is a GREAT program that helps an abuser identify his or her problems and find solutions. Regretfully almost all attendees are forced there after being charged with domestic violence.
It will be very difficult for the abuser to admit he has a problem before being arrested. But, if he can do that, and if you can find a similar program, like BEP in Iowa, in your area, then it would be a VERY good step to take.
Good luck and DO NOT put up with ANY form of abuse. Move out until he gets help. DO NOT GET HURT.
2007-08-15 21:56:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes a man can get help, there's a reason as to why he's so abusive! Maybe bad childhood?! Anything can make somebody abusive!
And I suppose in some cases if he hits you once, maybe he will hit you again! Get him help!However my man hit me once, and I punched him back and broke his nose! lol.....But he's never done it since!
Controlling men are bldy hard to deal with! But they have to get help! And if they won't do it! We have to get help for them!
2007-08-15 21:56:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that the women need to get out of the relationship and get help.
2007-08-15 21:52:25 · answer #3 · answered by SW1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A man who hits a woman isn't a man.
2007-08-15 21:55:16 · answer #4 · answered by Erik F 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Everybody talks about men beating women, but it goes both ways, and in my opinion its just as wrong.
2007-08-15 22:09:11 · answer #5 · answered by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you are just prejudice i hate people like you that always knock men, and including a negative person.
2007-08-15 21:53:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that they have to respect each other to continue this relation
2007-08-15 21:54:49 · answer #7 · answered by Хасан Aль Рабиа 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
To answer all your questions, YES!
The real question is, will he get help?
2007-08-15 21:52:44 · answer #8 · answered by sgtgregg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋