am i being in senceitive?

Question

right here goes in short i started talking to this bloke on the internet weeks ago because i felt my bloke was ignoring me and treating me as a slave(we live together) any way me and my bloke had a huge agrument and i blerted out that i was talkin to this bloke he promised to change and treat me better as long as i stopped talkin/ textin this bloke which i promised to do, and i have,now my bloke is getting stroppy cos i have a bebo account and i added a boy mate to my friend list lasdt nite and he through a head fit i said i aint done or said nothing i shouldnt have and have done nothing wrong the computer is the only way i get to talk to my old mates, he says that i am hurting him buy adding these people am i being insensitive?

the guy i added as a friend last night i have known since school all of my friends i have added i have known for years except this one bloke

Answer 1

Not really the best way to deal with your bloke ignoring you I have to say, but what's done is done. Yes you were insentitive, but you should also be allowed to have whoever you like on your friends list- how about not letting him see your account- it's yours and it's private. But don't throw nasty threats at him when arguing, it's no wonder he is feeling insecure. He needs to lighten up though if you have really stopped the flirting with a stranger...... you had an agreement...

Answer 2

Your relationship sounds magical; If you dont' kiss my *** I will emotionally cheat on you and maybe more. Wow.

Where's Jerry Springer when you need him; anyways...

Your being selfish and extremely insensitive and just the fact you ask this shows big problems. Your man is also probably a pill too but threatening him that you'll cheat and flirt with others is not going to bring you closer together. Stop chatting with weirdo's on the internet and spend that time talking thins out with your bloke. Its the sensitive and mature thing to do. Good Luck.

Answer 3

You guys need to come to some sort of compromise if you want your relationship to work. Maybe he could promise to treat you better if you promise to stop adding male strangers to your friend list.. or something along those lines, you know?

To answer your question, I don't think you're being insensitive, but I do think that both of you guys gotta be more receptive to the other's needs. Good luck with everything!

Answer 4

I'd go with a yes. He doesn't feel like you love him anymore and you have basically told him that you were trying to see another man over the Internet. If you have problems in a relationship you have to talk about them not run off with another person. It seems like your 'bloke' finds it hard to trust you and I can understand why.

Answer 5

You need to have a long talk with him. First of all, you should never try to make a man jealous. It only causes problems. tell him that you are sorry for trying to make him jealous. then tell him that you will not be adding any guys that you are not just friends with. Tell him that you have to trust that he is only friends with the girls that he knows, and that he needs to give you the same trust.

Remember, no more game playing with him. that just is not right.

Answer 6

Yes. You used the fact that you are talking to another guy during an argument to elicit jealousy and/or anger. Now you want to continue that practice. You need to consider how this makes your man feel.

Answer 7

you should be able to talk to your mates,but you have probably made your fella paranoid cos you hav ben chatting to other men.his pride has probably been hurt.you just need to reasure him its him that you want but you like chatting to your mates on the net.good luck.

Answer 8

yes pinky xx