I know, sounds terrible right? but sadly is true, i HAD NEVER KISSED A GUY. I never felt bad about it or even gave it much thouht, but now that I'm going to college I'm feeling super self-concious about the subject, I dream about being kissed by a guy who makes feel like I'm flying but I had still not found someone who makes me feel confortable to kiss, some guys have tried to kiss me but I just can't do it, I feel sick when the moment of kissing arrives and I just want to go and take a bath because i feel disgusted.
Weird, right?
2007-08-15 21:20:47 · 15 answers · asked by liza 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not necessarily weird. There is no problem waiting for college to have your first boyfriend/girlfriend; everyone is more mature anyway. You are just someone who likes to take her time and let things flow naturally. If you find a great guy who seems to really understand you, then he will be able to recognize when the time is right and make the move. Or, if you are more comfortable initiating the first kiss yourself (which is entirely appropriate: we don't live in 50's anymore) then let him know that beforehand so you can control the pace. When the conversation comes up, say something like "You know, all the guys I've gone out with have tried to kiss me way too fast. If I was going to kiss a guy again, I think I'll be the first one to do it." Any smart guy will pick up on that and wait, if he is worthwhile.
2007-08-15 21:27:15 · answer #1 · answered by TheHonorableReese 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, maybe a little, but not that weird.It is actually nice to know that you want to be kissed because of love and not just the physical aspect. Don't worry, I am sure the right guy will come along.
2007-08-15 21:25:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound terrible. In fact, I wouldn't even worry about it. Be glad you haven't been sucking face with a bunch of losers. Because you've waited so long, when your first kiss happens it will be super special.
Congrats for holding out!
2007-08-15 21:29:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it too much. It's different with different people. I've kissed some girls and it's really hot, but then others it's like...ew. Sometimes there's just no chemistry.
Eighteen isn't that old! You've got time, and college is way different than high school.
2007-08-15 21:27:34 · answer #4 · answered by Erik F 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's good that you haven't wasted your first kiss on some juvenile loser when you were 12 (wonderful story of my life). At least now you're more capable of rational thought and old enough to appreciate a first kiss, so hopefully it will be more meaningful to you as you look back on it.
2007-08-15 21:27:57 · answer #5 · answered by Chocolate_on_the_Moon 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly speaking at the age of 20, I'm not bothered nor feel terrible and horrible not being kissed by someone or kiss someone. (:
There will always be someone who will make you comfortable when they kiss you, no matter on the lips or on the cheeks (: CHEERS! (:
2007-08-15 21:39:45 · answer #6 · answered by preciouslittlestars 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Better it will be if you go more slow now in your college. Kissing or being kissed is not that important for you. It is important for you to be with 'nice guy' and this requires patience on your part.
2007-08-15 21:33:18 · answer #7 · answered by sv 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey... don't worry too much about that. Maybe you're giving it too much thought. Let it be and you'll know when the moment arrives. After all, there's more to life right?
2007-08-15 21:34:48 · answer #8 · answered by purpleCat 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If anything it's good to not be kissed by your age, you're just waiting for the right guy, don't let some collage asshole ruin that.
2007-08-15 21:28:09 · answer #9 · answered by maggot 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont think its weird at all. i think its actually a good thing that you seem to be waiting for the right guy! dont feel self concious, theres nothing wrong with waiting. =)
2007-08-15 21:25:24 · answer #10 · answered by starss. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋