There is a guy that I really have it bad for. he knows i like him because i told him but he never told me he liked me back. I think he was kinda showing it though the way he would interact with me afterwards. I havent seen him in months. but i started thinking about him lately and I asked God to help me forget about him if he wasn't worth my time and I asked him yesterday that if he was worth my time to give me a sign. Well i awoke today and he was the first thing on my mind he always is anyway but today.. i kept thinking about him and all the things we spoke about and our actions towards each other. I kept having flashbacks while i was awake and i was just daydreaming on my bed well while i was daydreaming i had a vivid thought that he told me he loved me while he made love to me and ask me to have his baby. tears were just rolling down my eyes. I touched my eyes and those tears were truly there. Is this the sign? or am i just thinking too hard about him? This never happened before!!
2007-08-15 21:00:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Since there is no reason to believe that a god even exists, the answer is necessarily No.
2007-08-15 21:06:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been in a similar situation. And the "signs" you wish for, you can interpret them the way you want... If you've already made up your mind about what God's will is, then you'll begin to see "signs" everywhere. And you will be misled.
You were daydreaming of the things you desire. You want this man to love you etc. And the fact you cried, was because you'd be happy if he really told you those things. God is not giving you these daydreams - you are.
I've been in a similar situation, so I know that just because you "feel good about him", love him, want him, see him as the perfect man for you, doesn't automatically mean that he really is God's man for you.
GOD WANTS THE VERY BEST FOR YOU - AND IF YOU WAIT ON GOD, HE WILL GIVE THE RIGHT MAN TO YOU! You don't have the whole picture, God has, and HE KNOWS who's best for YOU.
But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. (Matt 6:33)
Seek HIM first, and then everything else will fall on its right place. GOD is the ONLY ONE who can satisfy you and give you what you really need deep inside, where no man can reach. HE is the only one who can give you life - and REAL life! You won't have a husband for eternity - but you will always have GOD and HIS LOVE if you choose Him!
Don't follow your feelings, because feelings don't always tell the truth, they come and go, and God does NOT speak through your feelings!
You wrote that you asked God to help you forget this guy...God is not gonna change your thoughts for you, you'll have to do that yourself. We are responsible ourselves about what we think about.
"Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past." (Isa 43:18)
...we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ. (2 Cor 10:5b)
...whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things. (Philippians 4:8)
Put Jesus first in your life, seek Him first, let Him be your biggest love, let Him be your life and joy - and you will stand on an unshakable rock and not on unsteady sand (see Matt 7:24-27).
"Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where moth and rust do not destroy, and where thieves do not break in and steal. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also. (Matt 6:19-21)
Come near to God and he will come near to you. (James 4:8a)
I wish all the best for you!
2007-08-15 22:32:09 · answer #2 · answered by G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Salam sister
Well hesitation oh his part may mean a hidden intention consult your deity inshAllah for he is the best for you in all situations.
It should be easy, not difficult and you look like its confusing you, so move on to the right and seek some truth about this person inshAllah and soon if you are with the right all will be revealed its just that easy
2007-08-15 21:16:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possibly. This is one of those questions that people ask only to disregard any answer that isn't what they want to hear.
When we have a crush on somebody is it a result of divine intervention? Should we believe that our erotic fantasies come from God? Sure, why not? Maybe this guy really is "the one".
Good luck with that.
2007-08-15 21:24:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the source ; yourself . You are the only one that can deal with your unrealistic obsession and choose to take discipline and move on with your life the time for commiseration is done . Find your self satisfaction and a new love will eventually come to a better more well done individual .
2007-08-15 21:25:18 · answer #5 · answered by dogpatch USA 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as much as I loved the western world as much as I hate the female over their they keep chasing the men!!!!!!!!!!!!!! wawo even the men their would not like to be with them.
have some self steam on you and keep living your life as it should be, even if he is with you and you love him that much and he simply do not give a flying toss about you, your life would be more complicated because you may have to face the true when just simply say to you I do not love you any more.
women be strong and have that pried that every man love I tell you. even if you are not that nice he would notice your pried at lest. okay
2007-08-15 21:20:57 · answer #6 · answered by Orca 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rache, the sign you want is a ring on your finger before you make babies. if he's willing to give you that sign, then he loves you.
if not, he's just looking for sex.
dreams are just your minds way of processing complex emotions while you sleep. lots of people cry from those emotions being very strong while their sleeping.
No biggie.
2007-08-15 21:09:17 · answer #7 · answered by TEK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a Christian then you must marry a Christian. That way you are playing by the same rulebook - the Bible.
You must remain chaste until you marry.
You must stay married unto death.
NEVER SAY I DO IF YOU CAN'T DO IT FOR LIFE!
2007-08-15 21:13:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might just be thinking too hard.. my friend had it really bad for this one guy.. and she told him too! (no lie it really happened) he didn't talk to her as much after that.. but they were still friends. she thought about him all the time. she said soon after she prayed and went to sleep and that God in her dream told her that the guy was her future husband! she was so excited and as she told me she was crying! telling me she felt so privileged to know who her future husband was. well.. turns out.. he had a girlfriend.. or should i say fiance.. and got married to her not too long after that. my friend was shattered! she suffered so much.. its just when she likes.. she likes hard! when she loves.. she loves hard! so don't get your hopes up too much.. it could just be you just dreaming it all up! not to discourage you.. but its a possibility. Good luck!
2007-08-15 21:22:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him... just don't blurt out the baby thing... I think God's telling you what He always does, go forth.
2007-08-15 21:08:09 · answer #10 · answered by gogododo3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋