I know I am still young..
I want to a kid but I said ill wait until I am 19,
I have grew up looking after my sister and cuz 24/7 sense I was like 11, all I want is one of my own..
I know there very expensive, but im sorry its natural!!!!!
any ideas on what i should do..
don't say get a dog I have a dog cat bird fish haha...
Im scared one day I will fall pregnant on purpose cause I want one.. but I want to wait until im 19.
Is there something wrong with me...
2007-08-15 19:43:05 · 20 answers · asked by Secret20004 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
No i do not live in a trailer, I come from a very wealthy family, and it would be against our family tradition for a young teenager to fall pregnant. its what I want...
2007-08-15 19:50:30 · update #1
I have a job!!!!!
I quit school to work...
2007-08-15 19:59:07 · update #2
Its natural to want to be a mother, but its WISE to wait and grow up a tad bit more, and be married when you get pregnant, K?
2007-08-15 19:49:41 · answer #1 · answered by ellen 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'd say if you want a kid wait until you are a little bit older. If you have one right now you'll regret it. It will be hard to complete school. Also you should wait until you have a job and you start making money cause if you don't how would you support the baby. Wait till your 19. Also wait till you are with someone you know will stick with you and the baby casue i can tell you from experence that being a single mom is extremely tough. You can't go out that much if at it will not leave you any free time and if you have one right now you will regret it.
you will regret quitting school when u can't get a good job i think u should get back into school. My brother quit and has never gotten a good job ever since.
2007-08-16 02:57:25 · answer #2 · answered by lbear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've heard a lot of girls your age want a baby because they think they will have someone to love and someone to love them back. That a baby would be their flesh and blood and something truly special. You're right, having your own baby is truly special but babies are very, very expensive, time consuming, and your life is never the same. I was 26, married for two years, had a Bachelor's degree, a great job, and a very supportive husband when I had my daughter. I wouldn't want it any other way. My husband and I traveled a bit before we decided to start a family. You are very young. Go live life a bit and have some fun. I did and I don't regret it and fully embraced being a mother being a little older and wiser than when I was 17 (or 19), married, and educated. Please wait, it will be better for you and your future baby.
2007-08-16 02:52:10 · answer #3 · answered by Precious 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What about the baby having a father and mother and a home to live in, seems like you haven't thought this through much. You will have to stop working and how will you support the baby. Wait till you have everything set up financially for your child, you need to be responsible for the baby for the next 18 years.
2007-08-16 03:16:35 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're crazy... raising your siblings with adult help is different than being the one totally responsible. Who will take care of the baby while you work? What will you do when you want to go out with friends? You're not planning to live with mom and dad and also have a baby are you? I would get a realisitic looking doll and pretend it's your babe... 17 you haven't even experienced life yet. Go away to college, have fun, meet people. If it happens it happens, but don't be stupid and thinkt hat having a kid is fun.
2007-08-16 03:14:22 · answer #5 · answered by lahlahdipsypo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it, I promise you'll regret it. I'm sure you can wait. AND wait for a man that you love to help! I'm sure your kid doesn't want a "mystery daddy". Seriously, going off doing that will you get you into a deep situation. I've had 2 people I know do that, and it has not worked out for them. Also, in some places, if you're pregnant and not legal, they'll force you into abortion. You don't want that, do you?
2007-08-16 02:51:37 · answer #6 · answered by :) 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with you, but you're right. You should wait til you're 19 and see what you think. chance are by then your mind will have changed. You change so much at that age. Just stay strong and always keep your options open. You have quite a while to have a child.
2007-08-16 02:49:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
id bet anything you live in a trailer. To you a baby is a pastime a hobby a nothing. Something to love because you feel that you should posses it or that it would be fun. Its not like that in the real world. Your baby will be a creature smarter than 99.9999% of all life on this planet. It deserves to not be the possession of an immature 17 year old. Wait a while, learn some sh-t, learn how to treat people and how to raise a child. Your child will love you for it.
2007-08-16 02:48:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Wait until you can provide for that kid wether you are 19 or 29, having a kid for you is selfish, having kid to create a life that can make this world a better place is what procreating is about!
2007-08-16 02:49:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
wait till your at least 25
cause when your 19
by the time the kid is 10
you'll only be 29 dude thats young
2007-08-16 02:51:39 · answer #10 · answered by ditzy blonde 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋