2007-08-15 18:06:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Please, Please I beg you. Get away from him. I mean it when I say there are few of us who get into a deep relationship with a man who batters women. Most of us die, or learn to take it with a grin. Don't be either PLEASE I really do know what I'm talking about, look it up for yourself. I got out of one and into another. I found out my reasons, you need to find yours. Get therapy for having such a strong desire to allow someone hurt you. Pain and love are mutually exclusive. He can't love you and deliberately hurt you too. I'm really worried about you. Stay away from him. I'm an old woman and that only counts in experience, not wisdom, but in this case I have both. Not common for me! I beg you, for the sake of you being young and having a chance for a good long fulfilling life, get away from him. If you stay, you loose your potential for a good life.
Blessed Be
2007-08-16 03:29:32 · answer #1 · answered by Linda B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love does not hurt, and when it does that should be where you get off. What should you do.. LEAVE as fast as your feet will let you. This person has assaulted you, and that's not love, you are worth more than that, this person one day could kill you. You are a beautiful person and have people who love you, please don't mistake abuse for love, don't except anyone abusing you to be a part of your life. Get out of the relationship and go about your life, and let him seek help for his terrible, abusive, attitude towards you.
2007-08-16 01:27:55 · answer #2 · answered by carmel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am surprised that you are asking what to do.Under the present circumstances, you don't need a man who believes in assaulting his girl.What do you love about him?love is caring, patient, loving,protective,supportive,and gentle.How many of the qualities mentioned above does this guy have;please .my suspicion is zero I guess what you need to do is go in the opposite direction from the one he is approaching. You do not want to or need to be with him---not now, not ever.I wish you the very best.Good luck.
2007-08-16 01:33:31 · answer #3 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a half sister who has recentley and probaly still is going through this. I'd kill him if I could, there's alot of other bad stuff happening in that family and they have two kids, ones a baby and the other is 14 but from her previous husband. People like this are bad. Leave!!!
2007-08-16 01:19:46 · answer #4 · answered by huckabert 08 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way you feel in love you can fall out of love...If he hit you then there is no love there. You never hurt the one you love. I know it sounds mushy but no truer words where ever spoken. Get out now before you get caught up in a very bad relationship. It is not worth the pain...
2007-08-16 01:13:58 · answer #5 · answered by Bigeyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What can possibly make you love a man that treats you that way?
2007-08-16 01:10:44 · answer #6 · answered by MommaBear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are leaving and leave. If he gets abusive because you are leaving, tell him the very reason you are leaving is because of 'this' very behaviour. I would have said call the cops if he touches you again, but then, you are in love with him and there is not reasoning with women who are in love.
2007-08-16 01:15:16 · answer #7 · answered by happykat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave. Seek counseling. Learn to love in an equitable and healthy dynamic.
2007-08-16 01:12:05 · answer #8 · answered by Thomas C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This type of guy not only assaults one person but many and will end up cheating on you and possibly molesting children, and maybe has already like relatives, his own, or others.
2007-08-16 01:12:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if a man assaulted you i would say no second chances or anything hes not worth your time...so id leave
2007-08-16 01:11:11 · answer #10 · answered by manda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋