My boyfreind is ready to makeout, but im 12. Im not ready, but he is.....?

Question

I mean, I love him and all, but still. He isnt a virgin so this is not new to him.....It is to me!

Answer 1

.Ur a bit young

Answer 2

OMG, You have a bf at 12, I'm jealous, lol. I am 16 and I don't have a bf yet, and I dont want one untill I'm about 18. I had a best friend that was a boy, I called him my bf. But w/e, I mean, Do whatever you want, I can't stop you, But just be cairful, I have made hudge amounts of mistakes already that I wish I could ree-do. Just Don't do anything your not ready for, cuz once you do it, you can't change it, it's there taunting you for the rest of your life. So if he tries anything, tell him that your not ready. If he loves you than he'll waite. And if he does anything to you that you don't want him to do, then you should tell someone. Thats all I gatta say. If you ever need advice, you can ask me.

Answer 3

Wow. How old is he?
I think personally that you are too young to be dating a guy that isn't a virgin, but if you love him I really don't know you or him so I'm not going to comment on that.
I think that you should wait until you are ready, because you will regret it if you do make out with him. Kissing and stuff is fine but that can lead to other things, which as twelve year old I wouldn't want to have dealt with...wait to 'sleep with him' until you're graduated, that's what I say.
Just tell him you want to wait to make out and he should respect your decision and stuff.

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Answer 4

if he tries to kiss u.......pop him in the mouth if ur 12 and not a virgin then u have some serious problems he is probally lieing to u dont date till ur almost 14 maybe 13 but seriosuly u donmt know what love is u just in the really really really liking stage

Answer 5

Hi Morgan:

12 is too young - let me tell you that outright. Too many mistakes come when girls are pressured at a young age. You need to tell him that you're not ready, you're too young and if he can't accept it, drop him. If you go ahead, he is breaking the law as the legal age is 18 at least, if not 21.

I can't stand guys who don't consider girl's feelings - it gives the rest of us a bad name.

all the best,

Chuck.

Answer 6

Follow those red flags coming up in your head. Its there for a reason. If he can't understand why you dont want to make out or do 'it' then i'm sorry but your boyfriend aint all that.

At your age, many girls are naive into thinking that their guy 'has to be the special one' and will not leave you and all. But when youre at my age you learn the truth that not every guy is as great as they make themselves to be until they get something out of you (or..into you if you get what i mean).

If its meant to be, you'll feel it in the future. But for now, please please follow your own instincts. I dont want you to end up like my best girlfriends and all

Answer 7

I was 9 when i first was making out :D but thats not right, dont do that, wait till you ready. And dont use that word Love, its a bad word :)

Answer 8

YOUR BF IS HOW OLD?
Make SURE you don't do anything he wants you to do that makes you uncomfortable... if you uhm get Aunt Flow to visit during the month then you might want to be careful what he makes you do... And are you sure you know what love is? I mean don't do anything you'll regret. Especially preggo.

Answer 9

Dont do anything you dont want to or arent ready to do!! You dont want to get into that habbit at such a young age, its bad and hard to break!

Answer 10

HOW OLD IS HE?? wow if your not ready to make out tell him if you love him and he loves you he should understand. if he doesnt leave him. your 12 many other cruhes will come. but really how old is he?

Answer 11

Take care.You cannot make love at 12.Try avoid him and concentrate with life.