Ok I started school last week and I noticed this guy and I got so nervous to even make eye contact with him,lol. Well I go to a charter highschool and its not big at all, we only have 2 lab rooms which we do our work only on computers for 4 hours without talking to nobody. I dont have a chance at all to even speak and sit by him and it definatly makes things harder. I dont know or speak to no one and I dont know how to start because we only get a 15 minute break for lunch and everyone just stares at me and it makes me feel more nervous that I dont even eat comfortable and I try to finish fast to go back to my computer. Please help with advise, thanks
I also would love to make female friends on here since I dont have no one to talk to about girl stuff and advise. Well If you're interested just send me a message and we can take it from there, and Im also 19yrs old so I prefer friends17yrs or older for the experience,lol . Thanks
2007-08-15 17:30:23 · 11 answers · asked by ♥I_rock_you♥ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im sorry to hear that kevin but sooner or later you will find your woman.good luck
2007-08-17 14:10:55 · update #1
Well, I think you oughta approach him during your 15min lunch break, and try talkin' to him. Either that, or try to get him to come over for a study date, or whatever. I must admit, you're in a tough spot there...
And about the advice thing, I can give advice just as well as any girl. Most guys you can't talk to, because they're assholes, but that ain't the case with me.
2007-08-16 14:06:05 · answer #1 · answered by Lucky Charmz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So get over the jiters, i did not for years, and now I'm a 42 year old Single neve r married male.
I did not want this, but being to shy in school made me work a lot in my life, but not get out and have a lot of fun, YET!
I was ready to change when i was 34 years old, But then my father lost both legs, so moved in to help him and mom, so he could get around. He passed on 3 years ago,at 91. mom went blind 3 years ago, With her long term AMD, So now i'm taking care of her since.
So for me, if you really have Deep feelings for this Man, inside and out, then at least tell him. Give him a chance to answer either for the good or the bad answer back to you.
Good luck
2007-08-16 06:15:54 · answer #2 · answered by kjokergo11 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if other people are making eye contact with you, that means they're interested in talking with you. so muster up all the courage you can (and i'm a shy introvert too, so i know how hard it can be) and go over and say hi. once you start meeting a few people (especailly females, since there isn't any weird attraction between you), you'll get some more self-confidence to finally just go up and talk to this guy
you can do it!
2007-08-15 17:34:50 · answer #3 · answered by Nellie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is time for you to relax.
be yourself
make wherever you are your land even if your not in your castle, say to yourself this is your property. Let the others feel that your glad they are in your land. If you have trouble making contact with him just observe him and his friends, then approach one of them and say something light, like "Hey we dont get much time here to make friends."
Little by little you will get to know more about this guy. Ask his friends-the guy ones are the best to ask, "What is his name, does he believe in Jesus, does he have a girl friend, did he have a girl friend (If so and she goes to the school find out who and ask her about him-did he cheat, lie etc), what is he into, etc."
When you decide if he is a true prince worth being with for the rest of your life, then let him know or his friends that your interested in him. You can tell them you have a boy friend (me) but that are relationship has been on cool and he doesnt mind if I find a new prince (I may be sad but I will be happy for you Rockin me no more) That way it will seem that you know what is going on.
In his amazing grace, the sweet pea. John 3 asked Jesus to forgive me for even one lie, come into my heart to save me and be my friend, and as he says in this chapter got born again, amen.
2007-08-15 22:32:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Little lady, I've had a crush on you since we met, but I think you figured that one out already. Anyway, is over 40 good enough for you? I got loads of experience.
2007-08-16 01:35:34 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The early poultry catches the trojan horse. i think of you ought to pursue it as long as he's obtainable. as quickly as he starts relationship your terrific buddy, he'd easily be off limits to you. maximum of all, stop questioning approximately who else he could like on the 2nd and ask him your self. Too many human beings could fairly project themselves to dying than ask.
2016-10-15 12:19:13 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem like a very likeable person + you are a very pretty young lady...Whenever possible just try to start a conversation with him or others and take it from there...Good luck!
2007-08-16 02:52:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get his attention after school, take him behind a wall of the school and tell him!
2007-08-15 17:54:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he feels the same way - but you'll never know until you ASK HIM ;););)
2007-08-15 17:41:48 · answer #9 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
go up to him and KISS HIM!
i think he will get it
2007-08-15 17:35:23 · answer #10 · answered by Jilliebean 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋