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Why wont I do the things I need to do to make my life better ? I'm so miserable, so alone. First I'm sad them I'm full of hate and its all directed at myself. Why dont I care what happens to me ? Please only those in the mental health field respond.

2007-08-15 16:55:21 · 5 answers · asked by ? 4 in Health Mental Health

Thanks peter now I h8 u , yer useless, take yer own life loser.

2007-08-15 17:09:52 · update #1

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Dude, I'm no therapist, but i think i can help. Your doing the exact same thing that i do sometimes. Your being too hard on yourself. I have things about me that i hate (both mentally and physically), but we're both gonna have to just deal with it. Truth is, there are a lot more people out there who are feeling alone, just like you. Only difference, is that some people hide it better than others. Your expressions of anger and hating yourself, are from your concern of your own well being, and that basically means that you really DO give a damn. So what your a "glass half empty" person!? Even the Bible is full of good men who were "glass half empty" people. Perfect example....... Apostles "John" and "Thomas". Dude, you gotta start taking it day by day. You worry too much. Don't worry about what everyone else has. A good job, a good looking girlfriend, money? Rich and successful people commit suicide everyday. Be a simple minded person who enjoys simple pleasures in life. You HAVE to deal with the hand you've been dealt in life. Remember that! And for God's sake, stop being your own worst enemy. You know what to do, so do it.

2007-08-15 17:33:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I've been that way for many many years. Its just a way of life.

Basically, nothing matters. You have to pretend that something matters and then stick with that. No one really cares about themselves in any ultimate way. They're just lost in the conflicts of every day life. Chances are, you spend too much time on the internet and not enough time with other people. Spend time with other people, and you'll hate them instead of yourself and you'll get lost in relationships and forget how meaningless everything is.

And suicide is always an option. Don't let anyone convince you that there's some magical life worth living. We're a bunch of animals that have evolved to be too intelligent to be practical.

2007-08-16 00:05:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 3

Oh, sweetie, I do know what you are going through. And it's called clinical depression. The brain is not producing enough Serotonin to help all your synapse work properly.

Please seek help through your doctor. You Can feel better about your life You Can feel happier. And you Can get rid of the hate with proper therapy and medications...

2007-08-16 00:02:00 · answer #3 · answered by ♥♥The Queen Has Spoken♥♥ 7 · 1 0

Pray.

Sound trite? Too simplistic? Couldn't possibly help your situation?

Try it. You may be pleasantly surprised at what Jesus will do to show you just how much He cares specifically about you and your life. Prayer (and the One who answers it) is powerful. More powerful than you might imagine.

2007-08-16 00:13:52 · answer #4 · answered by michele 7 · 0 0

Mayhaps you should check out this brilliant site based on fixing emotional problems such as yours? I believe it is called 4chan and you can find it at www.4chan.org . You should take a visit over to the random section and introduce yourself I'm sure they'll greet you warmly and help you as much as they can with your poblem.

2007-08-15 23:58:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 2

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