What is a guy to do when he can't find a girlfriend, and he has prayed to God so many times about it?

Answer 1

Believe me. Quit searching. It will come TO YOU. You should not go to it. It will happen when you least expect it. If you are around girls, don't look desperate, they will come to you.

Answer 2

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I pray you will find what God wants for you. I am a widower that prayed that god would give me The right wife (a very long and complex story).My wife had incredible faith and her greatest desire was to be with Jesus.First Read:
Eph 2:8-9
Romans 3,6,10
1 & 2 Tim

Pray that God will direct you where He wants you and what does he want you to do.Seek ye first:
Matt 6

If you are a christian then you need to seek a christian girlfriend.(maybe at a bible believing church).

Answer 3

Well dude. First of all, unless you really have a girl in mind you shouldn't waste all your time. Being desperate is not a good thing. Second of all, as a Christian, if you feel that having a girlfriend is something good and something God has planned for you, then go for it. Just remember, don't change who you are, or who what you say or do. No girl is worth that trouble because there is always some one else out there waiting for you. Be loose and don't seem desperate. Maybe God also wants you to focus about something else.

Think about It

Answer 4

I'm afraid I don't have an answer for you, but thought it might help to know you're not alone. I am still single at 44 and have prayed for years to find the right person and it just hasn't happened. There was one time that a person I was very drawn to came into my life, right after I had first started praying about it, and I was convinced that he was sent to me by God. Unfortunately, though, shortly into the relationship he told me he just wasn't feeling it for me. I was tempted to be angry with God, but decided just to continue to have faith. It's hard, but what else are you going to do :) I hope you are blessed with that special person soon.

BTW, don't let people make you feel bad for praying about this. God is happy when we come to him for the small things in life as well as the big ones.

Answer 5

i know that you are tired of people saying that she will come, but it's true. I'm 17 years old and I can't find a boyfriend, I've stressed and stressed over it, but came to the conclusion that I'm not as much in a hurry for one as I thought. I think I thought it should come with age, but I'm just not ready for a commitment like that right now.

If you are desperate still to have a girlfriend then maybe you should start going with your friends places that girls are. To the mall, to football games, where young people mingle. Your friends can introduce you to some girls that they know.

Don't be afraid to say something to a girl while you're standing in the boring lane at the grocery store. You don't have to be attracted to her but you can say ' hey how are you?You look really nice today.' That will help you build up confidence, so when you find a girl you like you can take it a little farther.

Hope I helped...GooD LucK.

Answer 6

If you have prayed to God asking for a girlfriend, he has answered you. He could want you to wait, because he does have someone special picked out just for you. Just because he doesn't say 'Yes' right away whenever you ask him doesn't mean he didn't hear you. Sometimes the answer is 'No' for now.

Answer 7

weeell... first off you have to learn to be patient! Secondly, any time you pray, you cant just say "give me this, please"- you have to actually believe that your prayer will be answered, and keep your eyes open for that answer (its called faith).
I'm also always surprised by some guys who expect to find a girlfriend when they never leave the house, don't do their hair, don't even attempt to dress well, smell bad for whatever reason, or are picky about what kind of girl they want. Remember, God can't help you if you aren't willing to help yourself! Miracles are for real emergencies! :)

Answer 8

Okay, I had a room mate in school who was all serious about finding a girlfriend.

Well, I started noticing that this girl from one of his classes kept showing up and kept calling. She was like a 6.5 to his 5 out of 10 scale. At first, she was asking him about a homework project they were supposed to do together. She'd call him and make plans to meet. He kept looking right past her. She would ask him about other stuff that had absolutely nothing to do with the homework assignment, so I knew she was interested in him.

Finally, I told him what I noticed, and now they're married.

The moral of the tale is that there are a kajillion people out there, 51% of them are women. Why don't you start looking by opening up your eyes?

Stop looking for a girlfriend. That sounds ominous. Why don't you take it one little step at a time and find women friends first.

Meeting girlfriends people is about proximity and common interest. Do you have a hobby or other thing that you like to do? Whatever it is, find a social group that does that very thing. Examples are theater, music groups, discussion groups, chess clubs, debate society, etc.

Last, talk to women. And more importantly, listen to women. Show interest. Be ready to write down telephone number etc. Be a social planner, make plans and stick to them. Invite people places.

And a few common-sense suggestions:
* Be a good sport
* Brush your teeth
* Wear decent clothes
* Take care of your appearance
* Don't be overbearing or pushy
* Be nice to everyone--cause you never know who is watching
* Beam courteousness
* Be current in current events
* Don't put your hands in your pockets all of the time (makes your hands sweaty)
* Stand up straight and don't lean on stuff
* Be self-sufficient
* Make decisions (and don't be a milk-toast)
* Be 100% honest with yourself and with others

Answer 9

Stop praying and do something. There arent any vending machines out there that diospence girls like teddy bears or cupie dolls.
You must make yourself attractive so that you will be interesting to the opposite sex.

Find something to be good at WHERE girls are also.
Or havent you noticed at football and basketball games. God gave us all everything we need for attracting mates.
Get your nerdy attitude out of the picture. You must show an interest in a girl but it has to be subtle. Grooming is vital at your age. If you are short, look for sort girls so they dont look down on you. What are your clothes like? Still wearing that button down sweater aunt bee gave you three christmas's ago? What about those ten different colors in your shirt? Wear clothes that match.
and dont make you brighter than her.
Ask a girl to do something with you! No! not that. And she won't want to see your grandpa's porn collection.
Ask her to go to a play with you. To a dance. to see the ballet. Girls dont care so much if you are nerdy but try to do things that they like.
The hunting hat with the license on it? Get rid of it. Get a nice hair cut. Clean those nails. Talk about things of mutual interest such as books you read or your family, but never your uncle the axe
murderer. Be casual. If she has a pinchy eyed friend get on the friends good side. She can make or break you. You can even ask both of them to go to a movie. Make points and sit between them. LEARN how to dance, the new stuff but also a waltze which is usually the last dance. Ber yourself but be attentive. Don't ever curse or put anyone down you see wherever you go. Never blurt out everything about yourself after meeting. Be slow about it, especially about things like you wet the bed until the electric claw was placed in your bed by your dad. Do not attempt a kiss or make any moves, she will signal you when and if it is ok. If she doesnt signal and it has been more than two years, take the initiative, grab her and plant a kiss--on her cheek. You don't want to move too fast. If her mom or sister come on to you, it's a trick, don't fall for it. They will report back and the same goes for any unknown female who could be a plant. Hint that you already like another. It will get back to her.
A bird falling from the sky will get back to her.
This is a rule that goes on for life. If you are caught cheating no respectable girl will date you.
EVER. If you live in a small time your life is over.
So dont do it. Guys known to be faithful will be hounded by women who want to prove they can be the one to prove that all men, as in ALL men only want one thing and will go off with any woman who comes along.
Welcome to the modern world of dating. Good luck.

PS always find out what they eat before you ask them out. Some small girls can put away a steak and lobster and ask for the chocalate mousse when finished. Then she will inevitably tee hee and twitter with the waitress about leaving her bag and money with it at home. Chinese is cheap and she can bring home the leftovers if she is trying to impress you with how dainty she is. It's fun with the family and the guys but don't fart in her company until the third date. Give her time to adjust to your style.
And good luck to you.

Answer 10

Well praying to god about a girlfriend, nothing wrong with it but maybe your just looking in all the wrong places.
If you belong to a church often they have groups of people who are single, what about a dating service.
Don't know how old you are but join some group activities where you can meet people, bowling, swimming, ask your friends about setting you up on a blind date.
There are a lot of singles out there waiting to hook up with u!

Answer 11

You prayed for God for a g/f? Why not pray for God for the soldiers that are fight the wars? Pray for peace for humanity? Pray for people that are starving in this world?

Start Living...go to places where girls hang out...or where you see a lot of girls that frequent places...