I just turned fourteen and i'm going to be a freshman. i'm the only one out of all my friends who hasn't had my first kiss. guys tell me that i'm pretty and beautiful but the ones i like, will never ask me out. :/
what can i do to get more guys attention?? HELP!!
2007-08-15 15:56:52 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
slow down turbo.. it will happen when you least expect it!
2007-08-15 16:02:48 · answer #1 · answered by neverdugdisco 7 · 5⤊ 1⤋
hey
I'm 16 and I still haven't had my first kiss.
First of all don't worry about it. I suggest you do what I've done which is to not worry about not having a boyfriend and not looking specifically for a boyfriend.
It's worked for me because I've just started work and wasn't looking for a bf but met this really cute guy at work. I'm just chatting to him and getting to know him. Am gonna ask him to the cinema when I next see him.
Whatever you do don't let a guy force you into doing anything you don't want to do. And never have a relationship in secret if a guy tells you not to tell anyone else about it.
Finally remember be yourself whether that means you wear makeup or no makeup etc. Not everyone has a boyfriend so just chill and trust me that special guy will find you too. :)
2007-08-16 01:51:39 · answer #2 · answered by Rainbows-And-Stars 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys are naturally attracted to Lavender and Vanilla, so those scents in perfumes/shampoos are a plus. Try talking in his right ear- that's the side of the brain that controls happiness. And smiling and giggling in general is always a good idea. Hoped I helped!
2016-04-01 15:52:16 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore the immature idiots who gave inappropriate responses. What you need to do is remember that boyfriend or no boyfriend, you should focus on being yourself, having fun and being confident in who you are. These things are all attractive traits and they're also a great way to live life in general. Start to talk to some of the boys who you like. Initiate some contact yourself, don't wait around for them to do it. Also, get to know other guys, sometimes you need to get to know a guy to realize how great he really is. Good luck!
2007-08-15 16:15:25 · answer #4 · answered by lupin_1375 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I would suggest the direct approach, guys are shy too, so get the confidence and ask, and don't dive in for just a kiss, actually expect a relationship. Confidence in a girl is cute, good luck!
2007-08-15 16:04:04 · answer #5 · answered by Joey 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋
take no notice to some of these idiotic answers about revealing yourself to a guy....they are thick heads who know nothing and think from the waist down.....saddo's
....what you need to do is just be yourself...DON'T act too needy, dress decent, smell good and play a little hard to get, keep that air of mystery about you...any girl that over does it will not be taken seriously....your only 14 so i don't think theres any rush to get a boyfriend just yet...but if you do....just be you and don't go OTT with the make-up...guys hate too much make-up on a girl....plus...wear light smelling perfume...too much will put them off....smile sweetly and act like a lady....
2007-08-15 16:17:09 · answer #6 · answered by Dazzlebox 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Dont throw yourself at guys they wont have respect for you...Just be yourself the right guy will like you for you not how much makeup you wear or how you dress.
2007-08-15 16:29:25 · answer #7 · answered by ... 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
yep 14, would I love to be that age again!
Be yourself, be honest, and the boys will flock to you.
The best way to get a boys attention is to pretend you don't even know he is there, trust me this will make them want you even more.
Flirt with them a little but keep your distance playing a little hard to get never letting them on that you really like them it will drive the young men insane!
Soory to your parents becuase I went through this one with my daughter so I shouldn't be giving out this advice!
2007-08-15 16:03:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
1.Dress up. Always wear nice clothing.
2.Smell Good
3.Flirt. Let guys know your intrested in them.
2007-08-15 16:04:01 · answer #9 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
well, if u need to get a guys attention, i would always sugjust that u talk to them. there is a sit called myjellybean.com and it has conversation starters, flirting tips, and so much more! go to it!!!
2007-08-15 16:04:54 · answer #10 · answered by lazygirl303 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋
im goin into highschool 2 and i havent had my first kiss yet either so wat i wouldn do nething speical just make sure u look put 2gether and some guy will eventually ask u out and ull get ur first kiss
2007-08-15 16:05:26 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋