I'm 13 and I've never had a boyfriend. I really want one, but no one seems to like me. I know I'm young but all my friends have them. I want to meet the right guy. Help?
2007-08-15 14:53:19 · 41 answers · asked by Shannon 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you want to meet the right guy then wait. Yes you are still young. Go out and meet people. But please don't be one of those annoying little s**ts out there. Wait and you'll find the right guy. Don't worry about your friends because they're you friends and they're not you.
2007-08-15 14:57:24 · answer #1 · answered by mKsTpN0y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, your to young to be worried about getting a boyfriend at this age. Second, why is it that you really want one? Is it to fit in? Cause thats the wrong answer. Third, to meet the right guy takes time trust me I'm 26 and just found the right guy. You wont find the right guy at 13 it's going to take a couple years. The right guy for right now may not be the right guy a couple months later. Your still growing and learning what you want in life and don't want in life so I wouldn't rush it if I were you.
2007-08-15 15:01:47 · answer #2 · answered by cc91kilo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 13 too. Don't expect yo meet the right guy at this age, chances are you will go through ALOT of boyfriends before you find the right guy. I have had like... 5 boyfriends, which is strange cause I'm ugly. Lol. But If I can get one, I'm sure you can too. I suggest you join clubs at your school that do stuff you are interested in. That way you can meet guys who have the same interests as you! But if you still cant get one, don't worry about it! Alot of my friends are the same age and have never had boyfriends. I hope I helped!
2007-08-15 15:01:19 · answer #3 · answered by Jenna F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just have fun while your young, seriously, your 13, and you dont need a boyfriend right now, spend the time you have with your friends, cause once you get a boyfriend, then things with your friends will never be the same, plus, you dont want to get with someone that doesnt like you, dont change for anyone, just be you, and some one will come along.
2007-08-15 14:57:57 · answer #4 · answered by V.Lynne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't going to meet the right guy at 13, believe me. I was in your shoes at 13...even at 10, but I finally learned, at almost 18, that I'm too young, even now, to worry about relationships. Until you've lived on your own, you don't even know yourself very well, let alone someone else. It's better to wait until you've had some experience in the "real world." If you have relationships now, at your age, you will more than likely regret them by the time you graduate. It took me making my own mistakes, instead of listening to other people, for me to learn that lesson. So I beg you, listen to me and save yourself the pain!
2007-08-15 15:04:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Hon, please, wait. Don't rush something like that just because everyone else is doing it. Concentrate on your education, your teenage years and friends. When you get to be 18, you'll be so glad you did. You know the most unpopular kids in school, some of the ones that are really smart turn out to be our doctors, lawyers, politicians and people who make a lot of money. Believe me, that is soooo important, more important than worrying about a boyfriend at 13.
2007-08-15 14:57:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself first of all thats really important.... b flirty and try to be outgoing (easier said than done i kno that :D lol) talk to guys and hang out with the guys u like- if u rly like sum1, just go for it and ask him to a school dance or something! cuz chances are they will say yes! but dont feel too pressured to get a boyfriend, because 13 is young- but im not saying you cant have a boyfriend- im just saying it probly wont b like rly serious! hope this helps!
2007-08-15 15:01:53 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ℓιℓмιѕѕρяιѕѕ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Around 13 everyone feels that way so you usually just get set up with people if you're willing to play the game, you know to be seen with and have a date to the dance, usually it doesn't last, at that age its more for the purpose of having one, but hang around in a group of friends and you'll likely be set up with somebody
2007-08-15 14:57:29 · answer #8 · answered by secretservice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 14 almost 15 and I haven't had a boyfriend yet!! You should not be pressured into having a boyfriend just because all of your friends have boyfriends!! Just talk to some guys (around your age) and maby you will find a boyfriend!!
2007-08-15 14:57:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't even want one. You have no use for one at this stage in your life. This is too serious. Do your job, which is to get educated so you can be a good mother, and raise a good family -- which comes later, not now. First do good in school, and have fun; boys are no fun.
2007-08-15 15:00:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋