he got with my bestfriend when he broke my heart.
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2007-08-15 13:29:38 · 47 answers · asked by Linda James. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you really want to be hurt AGAIN?! Are you going for 3 strikes you're out! He really did stoop low when he went w/your best g/f, who I would hope you're not involved w/her again either. He's your past, leave him there. I'm surprised he has the nerve to even ask for another chance. He hurt you twice, cheated on you, what next can he do to you. Leave well enuf alone. You've done OK w/o him, so continue to do so. Start w/someone completely new & give yourself a chance of a new beginning. You know what this guys track record is which is zero. If you want to get hurt again go back w/him. Otherwise I'm sure you know what to do, just do it. AND, it doesn't include him. Good luck w/your new b/f, you'll be OK, you'll meet him soon. One door closed another one w/open. Good luck to you.
2007-08-15 13:45:56 · answer #1 · answered by Sue C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you must be honest with him about what he put you through before and that you are leary of what may happen if you take him back. Depending on how mature and serious he is about restarting a relationship with you again and if he truely understands what he did to you in the past and is sorry, then I'd say take it slow and be aware. Communication is your best tool. You also need to make contact with your best friend to check out what happened to make them break up. If you feel uncomfortable with this situation - then you must not accept his invitation but be real & tell him why or why not. Good luck!
2007-08-15 13:35:24 · answer #2 · answered by Louisa 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Simple answer. No. He broke your heart already, why give him a chance to do it again? If you let him back, he'll just continue the same pattern of dating you, cheating on you, and then begging forgivenesses. So just don't go down that path, there are other men out there who won't treat you like he will.
2007-08-15 13:33:30 · answer #3 · answered by Erulechto 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What are you thinking. This guy is a dog, and even thinking about getting back with him is not speaking well for your thought process. Do you like abuse? You want to get dumped again? Going out with a guy twice is not enough to "break your heart", he just pissed you off for trying to nail your best friend. You know what kind of guy he is, if you go for it, you get what you deserve. If you enjoy drama and getting screwed over, sure, go for it...
2007-08-15 13:35:37 · answer #4 · answered by StaticTrap 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Big, big, big NO!! Why do girls insist on going after the same guys who are obviously losers? Do you really want your heart broken a second time? Why risk that for some stupid boy who went after your best friend?? Find someone better.
2007-08-15 13:33:31 · answer #5 · answered by laneybug_lbp 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the time is not right. Sometimes the time beomes right. Now the ball is in your court. You now have the power to decide if having a relationship was ever meant to be. Thats a good positition to be in if you ask me.
Take it slow. If you like the guy why not give him a second chance. Just dont set yourself up to get hurt.
2007-08-15 13:33:14 · answer #6 · answered by LI Guy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally I think that it is your decision , but If I were you i wouldn't forgive him or my best friend because thats nasty to go behind someone's back and go with their friend , and if he broke your heart once what makes you think he won't do it again , so before you think about getting back with him , you need to really think about sum of the things that he has done to, but if you want him back then go for, but you should be ready for people to judge because , they are going to be like dam didn't he have you then yo best friend.
2007-08-15 13:42:33 · answer #7 · answered by Miss L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it depends on how you feel about the whole thing, if you love him and feel like you can trust him. but if you do take him back make sure you can really trust him. do what your heart tells you. can you feel like you can live without him? and how long ago was it when he broke your heart? you need to ask yourself some big questions before thinking about taking him back. good luck it sucks you have your heart broken and then try to trust again.
2007-08-15 13:38:29 · answer #8 · answered by you know 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Don't. If he got with your best friend, then it means he does not respect you or your best friend.
Stick up for yourself and your best friend and move on. Though it doesn't sound like heartbreak if it was only two times you went out with him. Just rejection, but still, that is a very cowardly thing of him to do.
2007-08-15 13:32:21 · answer #9 · answered by PSU840 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO WAY, dont even think about doing something like that.
he is a jerk, and is not worth your time. Instead of having a horrible time with this guy again, try finding someone nicer, and much better then the guy before. You will just be rewinding the past if you choose to be with him again
2007-08-15 13:35:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋