2007-08-15 13:27:59 · 19 answers · asked by Ashley 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This doesn't require a question. This simply requires that you tell him you're not ready yet. End of story.
2007-08-15 13:31:42 · answer #1 · answered by Penelope Smith 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Before attempting to offer my opinion as to what u should do i must confess that I'm not more than twenty two and not too experience in the dating world. Iv had just one real boyfriend in my life so far. We are now going on our Fourth YEAR in a few months and though our relationship can be categorized as serious, he has so far respected my "old-fashioned" views relating to the topic.
Young lady (as i assume you are) I'm giving you all this background for some very serious reasons.
First, if you give in to a man to have sex and its not something you of your self are ready for or want to experience, then you will feel very robbed and cheated.
Girl for starters, why not enquire the length of his longest relationship and see if you can surpass that without being touched. Arnt there many other things you guys can share an experience, get to know each other see if you are really for each other.
Look at it this way, you have all the time in the future to loose your 'ginity' with this guy but you'll never get the chance to get it back.
So follow my motto: "take your time and peal your pine, and if you find that it is spoiled then simply throw it away"
ALL YOU DO, DON'T BE JUST ANOTHER GIRL IN HIS WORLD.
2007-08-15 21:01:52 · answer #2 · answered by cautious lady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He better respect that you're not ready. Don't be afraid to let him know. You should probably even wait a month to see if he sticks around after you saying no. If he's not going to respect it then let him go before things get worse. You will be glad you did. In the meantime, just tell him you're not ready to have sex. If he asks why just tell him it's not the right time for you yet.
2007-08-15 20:33:51 · answer #3 · answered by TegLover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I gotta tell you, he may not want to wait for you. It depends on how old you guys are. If you really really aren't ready yet, and he doesn't understand, then leave him. However, if you love him and you can see that sleeping with him would not be regretted, then go for it. I didn't think I was ready to go all the way with my boyfriend but I did, and I think it was one of the better decisions I've made. I hope I helped. Good luck!
2007-08-15 20:35:10 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not ready to have sex, you should tell him. If he doesn't understand or gets mad, then maybe you should find someone who will respect your decisions.
I was in the same situation a couple weeks ago.. but I talked to my BF and we came up with a solution.
But no one should be forced to have sex when they're not ready or don't want to.
2007-08-15 20:34:20 · answer #5 · answered by wera 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you are not ready yet. He should respect your decision, and only have sex when it's right for you both.
2007-08-15 20:32:21 · answer #6 · answered by Marc M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you are not ready for that yet. If he truly wants to be with you, he wil back off and wait until you are ready. If not, then you need to find someone else!!
2007-08-15 20:32:17 · answer #7 · answered by Ken 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him your not ready yet. He's nuts. Ya'll only been together for a month. Tell him to slow down. If he is still pressuring you it is not worth it.
2007-08-15 20:34:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well girl stop being afraid and tell him its your body and if he doesn't want to understand leave him and tell him to find it elsewhere because if he care about you enough he will wait until you are ready.
2007-08-15 21:34:12 · answer #9 · answered by Miss L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok I belive love is needed for sex and it shouldn't be done for just pleasure and if your not in love (which i dont know) you definately shouldn't do it but you need to tell him your not ready and if he can't respect that then hes obviously a jerk and not worth your time
2007-08-15 20:48:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋