Basically my boyfriend of about 3 weeks, went to his cousin's birthday party. He told me he got drunk, and faded, and that he was running around asking for his girlfriend 'Janice'. And he said he can't remember anything really, and later on he woke up with his head in her lap. I heard that when your drunk or whatever you say the truth, so does that mean he wants her as his girlfriend??
2007-08-15 13:10:53 · 23 answers · asked by bluangl2032 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-08-15 13:15:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well, basically you've only been together three weeks so it really isn't serious. At least he was man enough to tell you about it. You have to talk to him, he might still have some feelings for her, but that is only natural. Sometimes when people are drunk they tell the truth but honestly it just drunk babble and it really doesn't mean anything. He obviously broke up with her for a reason and is with you because he likes you...my advice is to talk to him about it, keep your cool, and then never bring it up again. Give him a few weeks and if he does something else stupid when he's drunk, then kick him to the curb.
2007-08-15 13:20:38 · answer #2 · answered by Taj<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If getting drunk made you tell the truth, the inmates at Gitmo would be plastered 24/7. If he told you about this, I'd guess it means he trusts you enough to believe him. On the other hand, if he's drinking to the point of blacking out, you may have a bigger problem than Janice.
2007-08-15 13:21:46 · answer #3 · answered by grizzie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have heard that as well and I have even been around an ex of mine who was drunk with his gf asking for me so I would say in my case yes it was true in yours i'm not sure but after 3wks surely you can't be that serious anyway. Being drunk brings out the worst in people and sometimes the best depending on what you are doing. LOL anyway, I hope it works out for you but you just need to talk to him about it and go from there.
2007-08-15 13:21:58 · answer #4 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that just means he lacks good judgment right now because he's young. It is provisionally true that people spout truthful utterances while drunk, but that's ony relevant to a point, and once that point is passed it only amounts to incoherent gibberish...blacking out or passing out is reaching that point. Remind him that everyone is accountable for their behavior even while intoxicated, then see if his future behavior takes that into consideration. Other than that, it's a benign issue.
2007-08-15 13:21:51 · answer #5 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's absurd. When you're drunk you lose your inhibitions and spew a bunch of meaningless crap. You should be more concerned that he's exhibiting signs of alcoholism than that he had his head on Janice's lap.
2007-08-15 13:18:15 · answer #6 · answered by Penelope Smith 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i as a guy that has been in his spot, would have to say no for 1 he was at acousin's party with friends and girls so he was only playing his cards guts need to know at all times that girls still find us good looking and would want to be with someone like us, i am not saing what he did is right but he i a guy and if he is looking for something new ask him why and maybe it is something you can give him or at least show him you want to make it work and you can get over this thing amd move on with you and him as one but donot bring it up in a bitchy way be cool about it. for that really is how us guys are donot get worked up talk it works for me an my girl we have had some bad moments but still working on them an not giving up.
2007-08-15 13:27:15 · answer #7 · answered by sat a women 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys are too early in the relationship for me to say anything. But keep a close eye on his behaviors and actions from now on, both the alcohol and the silly behavior is not a good mix. Good luck!
2007-08-15 13:38:37 · answer #8 · answered by pretty asian 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that is the truth, he let his guard down and you saw what still lingers in his mind, he's not over the past, your might with him, but he still can't get over what he had, like someone building a house and it falls apart, he's not sure if he can still fix it or try a new house. thats what you need to know, Don't get hurt, this is serious
2007-08-15 13:21:44 · answer #9 · answered by Richard J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've only been with him for 3 weeks.
And if he's been with his ex girlfriend for longer than that, then yes he might still have some feelings for her.
But that doesn't necessarily mean that he wants to "be" with her.
He's with you.
And he's over her enough that he's wanting to be with you, so give it a chance.
Let your relationship grow, and so will the feelings ;)
2007-08-15 13:18:29 · answer #10 · answered by MommaBear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you will have problem with this relationship in the future. True friendship based on trust and act responsibly.
2007-08-15 13:16:58 · answer #11 · answered by musicABC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋