It is so annoying, I get asked out and all, but usually the first thing is "your hott" or "lets make out".... why is it like that?
2007-08-15 13:00:19 · 22 answers · asked by jstrachel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-08-15 13:03:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
For me i look at the heart of a girl. Physical apperance is only skin deep. yeah beauty is important but it is not everything. I believe feelings for a person comes from the heart. Take for inistance. when two people get up in age. what is one thing that will show and keep the love between then alive? I believe it is there feelings and thought for eachother not their looks. Physical app can't show or tell how much repect and dignity there is from one person to the other. phy app can communicate but not like communication level should be set at in any relationship or friendship. if you getting asked out just because your attractive then they those individuals need to do a self examination. Well i hope u understand. Asking out due to physical apperance are the jerks. the 10%.
2007-08-15 13:11:54 · answer #2 · answered by tulsa_truckdriver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys are like that although most of them seem to be. Perhaps youre not looking in the right places, there are guys who like a girl for her smarts or things that they may have in common like sports or the outdoors. Ignore the ones that just wanna make out cuz your Hott. Accept dates with guys that you have a common interest in and not just cuz he's hot.
2007-08-15 13:06:24 · answer #3 · answered by Renee Someone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends what the guy needs. Usually as you said physical is the first thing. But there are a lot of nice guys who look for inner quality. For example, supportive, being nice, respect others. If physical is the only thing the guy looks for, may be that is the wrong crowd. Try other groups.
2007-08-15 13:06:28 · answer #4 · answered by musicABC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personality.
2007-08-15 13:03:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you can make me seriously laugh, and not just a chuckle, then you're the one for me. I like personality. mainly the nice, sincere, fun to be around girl. but why do guys go for apperance? because that's the first thing we see and are attracted to.
2007-08-15 13:06:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the first thing I notice about a lady is looks of course, but if that is all she has, then I move along. I myself look for brains, I like to be able to carry on a conversation for more then a couple minutes.
2007-08-15 13:04:23 · answer #7 · answered by Injun 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Besides? Well, sense of humor, loyalty, truthfulness, trustworthiness, smiles, easy going. But men differ.
2007-08-15 13:06:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh please
would you go out with a fat and ugly guy who wears glasses?
would you give him an opportunity to impress you?
prolly not
you would prolly think he has no personality underneath that "ugly" look
same here
its the guys' job to ask out a girl and make the first move
i bet if girls traditionally asked out guys they would ask out the cute/hot guys as well when they see them first and would stay away from the not so hot/cute guys
2007-08-15 13:04:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Its better to be hot than not. I think men just try to give compliments to make women feel better. Dont get too offended. Men are visual creatures
2007-08-15 13:04:27 · answer #10 · answered by hollygolightly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
many guys are jerks and u have to accept that.go find a rich, smart,good looking guy who can support you and love you not just for s** or make-out sessions.good luck!
2007-08-15 13:04:44 · answer #11 · answered by pd5119 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋