my mom yells at me alot...
-she would always say.."im always trying to please you but i cant please everyone" (mad yelling voice...she whould turn around and say) "its her f**king fault...she is a stupiid son of a b-tch"
or
-"you need to clean up you dam- mess because me and my boyfriend are tired of cleaning up after you" (which was basically me on my laptop eating... i had no mess...i was just eating..)
or
"why the h-ell dont you want to go on the boat...are you scared?" (loud yelling...and cussing...)
this:
"there is no g--dam ants in the food! so eat it" (there is ants in the food and to anyone who wants to kno i will prove it!....!!)
and....
"if you dont help put the tent up i will slap you"
she gives me this look like "i want to kill you" look.
my mom doesnt support me any:
she says i'll never be in a band and i will have to get a real job and stay in ohio...
she always yells "you better be nice to xx(herbf) and xx (my dads gf)"
2007-08-15 12:54:17 · 5 answers · asked by ZawadiSacrilege 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i was never mean to them in the first place...
and my mom told this guy in the mall she was talking to (i was there) she said " this girl is the reason me and my exhusband are devorced....
my dad...
well im sure by reading that u kno my parents are devorced...
but always yells "tobbaco smoke cant do anything to harm you.."(2nd hand smoke... i kno it can kill people)
he talks behind my back..
2007-08-15 12:57:50 · update #1
my dad doesnt listen to me... he could care less if i dissappeared and never reappeared.
2007-08-15 18:28:51 · update #2
my room is infested with ants
; (
2007-08-15 20:28:07 · update #3
ok..now i know what can i do about it??
2007-08-16 10:35:34 · update #4
you need to seek the help of a counselor or some other adult that you trust. your mom is definitely verbally abusing you. and from someone who has been both physically and verbally abused i would rather be hit then told i was no good. the bruises heal from being hit but the feelings of being no good last a long time sometimes forever. can you go to your dad? please get some one to help you.
2007-08-15 13:30:12 · answer #1 · answered by brianswife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you have described is called emotional abuse. Don't for one second believe that you are worthless, hopeless, or in any way lacking in character. You are bright and resourceful. Keep telling yourself you are talented. You deserve to be treated with dignity and respect. If you can't get it from your parents you will have to give it to yourself.
Please see my resource info for a complete explanation of abuse.
2007-08-15 20:50:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my! you are a strong girl! it is definitely verbal abuse... how can your mom be like that? why did she say that you are the reason they got divorced? i think you need to talk to your mom, woman-to-woman, because if you don't do anything about this, it will probably get worse to the point that you'll be fed up and you'll fight back.
be patient and talk with her.
2007-08-15 20:17:22 · answer #3 · answered by ♥♥♥MiSSY♥♥♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds kinda like it to me. do you have any other relatives you can live with? the only other option would be foster care. try talking to a counselor at school they might be able to help.
keep your faith
2007-08-15 20:11:35 · answer #4 · answered by bee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
almost, if she says you're good for nothing, verbal abuse strike
2007-08-15 20:05:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋