OMG my life is sooo depressing?

Question

omg my bf is sooo cheating oon my bff gordai!!! he kisses her right in front of me and knows it too!!! He says i love you doesn't kiss me but starts making out with gordai who is right next to me! i still love him and i swore i would never break up with him cause if i did he said he would go out with gordai and i don't think i can see him with someone else!! what should i do?

I don't want to break up with him though!!! I LOVE HIM!!!!!!! I WILL NOT BREAK UP WITH HIM!!!

Answer 1

Wake up and smell the roses. He's cheating on you right in front of your eyes and you just stand there. You don't have to break up with him for him to go out with gordai he already is. So you see him with someone else every time he kisses in front of you. How dumb can you be.

Answer 2

I understand your pain! I am going through a similar situation. I spent the better half of the day reading blogs with similar content and want to assure you that you are probably better off having loved and lost, although I know it really does hurt. One thing I have learned is that you can take the boy out of the country, but you can not take the country out of the boy. If you married him, chances are pretty good that he would not give you much, if any, emotional support as a husband. If he was emotionally abusing you with talk about dating other women, in marriage it could be even worse. Indian guys, like him, carry on affairs quite often, it seems. Was your bf in need of a green card? I read stories of guys who abandoned good American wives to go back home and marry the woman of their mother's choosing. Fear and insecurity would be your constant companion if you married the bastard who made you fall in love with him. He obviously does not want to assume any responsibility for your feelings. Sadly, these men are so attractive as bf's because they present themselves as having high standards of morality and fidelity, but the truth is they are often not able to handle the extreme pressure from their parents and relatives to follow tradition. I hope you will read more of blogs about dating Indian men and find comfort in the hundreds of other girls who also got burned, but are older and wiser, now. I also hope you will eventually heal and use this knowledge to guide the next relationship. Don't give 100% until they put a ring on your finger!

Answer 3

Why would you stick around for him to be hurting you in the first place? Also your bff doesnt sound like a very good bff because if she was she wouldnt be making out with you BF in front of you. I think you should drop the Bf and the BFF and let them have eachother. Have some dignaty for yourself. Your just hurting yourself. Trust me i dont think they would last very long anyways. You sound like your still young. Fine another boyfriend that knows the value if a girlfriend and makes you happy. I hope i helped some. Good Luck.

Answer 4

You know what you should do?
Get a hobby.
You're our future generation and while most students in China and India at your age are inventing everything and taking over our universities, you are hanging out with this crap.

But to answer your question, stay out of it. One of the biggest rules in life is mind your own business. Plus, you should always know if the juice is worth the squeeze. Many people cheat, but if this guy is young, then there's no better time to do it.

If you worried like this with more people, you'll look back and see how much time you wasted worrying about this..(even tho I'm wasing time worrying about this too...haha..but you know what I mean).

Stop being so dramatic tho, and maybe try to find a more mature group of friends whose lives don't revolve around saying "BFF OMG OMG" all the time. It'll be a lot more fun!

OMG

Answer 5

If he is getting with your freind anyways, you might as well get rid of your boyfriend. In a way, you never fully had him to begin with. Unless you like being a doormat and being cheated on, you need to leave him right now. Go find someone else who will be faithful and appreciative to have you around. If you stick with this arrangement, your self-worth will only sink lower and lower.

Answer 6

when someone is unfaithful to you, your promise is broken by him.
and about promises which one should never make anyways only to God about God cause he would never cheat on you

he has abused you and used you-and the longer you let him do it the more of a victim you will let the next boy use and abuse you too

help=i got help from above about true love and heaven too=

prophecied "Unto us a child will be born, a son given, and he will be mighty God, the wonderful counselor, and the prince of peace." Isaiah 9:6
He will lay down his life to make atonement for our sins." Isaiah 52:13-53:12

Revelation speaks of the joy of heaven and the agony of rejecting salvation and the terror of hell forever=weeping and gnashing teeth (chapters 19-22 and see Matthew 24:51 too

and the answer to get there too=
Jesus said I am the way the truth and the life, no one cometh unto heaven but by me." John 14:6

I am a born Jew who let Jesus into my heart to forgive sins and become my best friend.

you can be any religion but if u dont know Jesus personally you basically define God anyway you want to-thus actually your your own god and can change your beliefs at any time-

I prayed, Jesus im sorry for my sins, come into my heart as you promised and be my friend, amen."

Jesus said speaking from heaven recorded by John (Revelation 1:1, chapter 1 verse 1, & 3:19&20 "I love you and ask you to repent quickly even of one lie. Behold I stand at your heart door and knock if you ask me in to forgive sin and be your friend, I will come in and fellowship with you and you wish me." (sup means as in eating together=true fellowship)

prayin for you and best wishes too.

Answer 7

break up with him because he is not worth the hurt, you are better than that and you do not deserve all that from him or from your so called bff. i would drop my bf and my bff if they were like that. you do not need that tell them both why you are not going to be involved with them anymore ok, then make new friends and be happy with another guy.

Answer 8

Break up with him and Gordai is obviously not your bff if she was she wouldnt do that in front of you or wouldnt be doin that at all sorry but face he obviously doesnt love you just forget him sorry

Answer 9

He is already with her in front of you. I mean, you have to put your foot down. Neither of them have respect for you, and the truth is that you need to find some new friends, because neither of these two are worth your time.

Here is what you need to do. (I'm serious) Next time he leans in to kiss your bestfriend, you need to grab him by his shoulders, knee him, and then just walk off...

Answer 10

Your name is Person Who Cares, do you care about yourself? First, talk to him and explain how you feel. If he does not change and you love yourself, then you would need to break off your relationship. You need to love yourself before you can love anyone else, otherwise, you're a hypocrite.