I'm kinda ugly, how do I attract a girl?

Question

Well? I want to be with an attractive girl, so I know girls want to be with attractive guys. I dont look that great. So what do I do?

Answer 1

Learn how girls think and apply it to your game. Be confident and be yourself.

If Tom Leykis can do it, you can too.

Answer 2

If you're not attractive, then you cant expect to get an attractive girl!! That's very selfish and shallow of you! Although Ive seen so many odd couples at the mall and stuff. Ugly girl/ hot guy vice versa. I think it's easier to get hot girls if you're and ugly guy. Girls can be shallow, but if you have a kick a s s personality that can melt the girl's heart, she might just fall for you

Answer 3

The first thing you do is kick yourself in the bu*t and tell yourself you are not kinda ugly! You may not be the most attractive guy of the planet but you are not ugly. Think positive!!! Do what you can to look your best. If you think you look handsome other people will also. Quit selling yourself short.

Answer 4

Just be yourself. I am sure that you can find an attractive girl that will at least find you attractive on the inside. I am sure you are not that bad anyway. We are all our worst critics. I mean, I think that I am really ugly because I have a big nose and a weird chin.

Answer 5

Use Your Personality! Some Chicks Don't Even like Jocks And They Might Choose Someone Like You That Has A Great Personality. And You Can't Be That Bad Lookin.. Lol That Sounds Gay

Answer 6

first of all you need to have more confidence in yourself. focus on the good aspects you would bring to a relationship rather than what you don't have. second, let your personality compensate for how you look. you can win over plenty of girls if you can make your personality work for you. third, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. even if you don't think you yourself is attractive doesn't mean some gorgeous girl out there isn't looking for someone just like you. if you remember that and have confidence in it, you'll do just fine.

Answer 7

Well the main thing would be to get some confidence and go after the girls that you find attractive, if they turn you down then so what there are plenty of them out there. Good Luck.

Answer 8

you could give more details..
however, speaking as a girl, if you are nice, funny, open, and talk to her (without being creepy), she'll be interested in you eventually. Unless of course she's the kind of girl that's not interested in that, and only interested in one thing...

besides that, like I said, try to flirt gently (don't go overboard or she'll think that you're a creepy stalker and tell all her friends), make pleasant conversation, be an enjoyable presence, just generally try to brighten up her day and when she sees that you are so qualified at the job she will start liking you and she may even ask you out.

You'll know she likes you when she starts the conversations, she laughs at all your jokes, and it seems like she always wants to keep talking.

Good luck!

Answer 9

Girls (at least the nice ones) dont worry too much about looks, smart and funny always wins the game. All the time! Be more confident in yourself (I know this is easy to say) but girls dont mind if you goof up, it makes you seem cute, no matter how miffed they look!

Answer 10

Try going to doubleyourdating dot com and sign up for David DeAngelo's free dating advice newsletter.

And you can try watching VH1 channel's new reality show, "The Pickup Artist", where eight dorky, unattractive guys are coached by "Mr. E." into how they can become more attractive to women..

Answer 11

The sexiest thing for a girl in a guy is confidence... believe in yourself... you wont get every attractive girl but you will eventully land the right one