im 15 and hav probly had about 10 bf since i wuz 13 n neva had sex of course but i luv makin out intensely is dat wrong?
like i like 2 b in sexy lingerie and give my guy dances while hes n boxers is dat wrong
2007-08-15 10:23:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i bet the guys thinks its wrong cause you do that and don't give them no relief from what you are doing to them..i love making out also and i have made out with two girls at same time that was really nice too...but to dance in sexy lingerie and not give them sex is bad....but i like you for having fun and doing what you like...do you ever strip it off for them and show your body...that would really get them off i bet.
2007-08-15 10:29:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's natural to enjoy making out... but that doesn't make it the best or healthiest thing for you to do. Eating a whole chocolate cake by yourself would taste pretty good, but you'd feel really disgusting and naseous the next day, wouldn't you? It's better to space things out - consider the needs of your mind, heart, and soul as well as your body.
You've definitely had a high number of boyfriends in a short amount of time, and even if you don't sleep with them you're probably getting a reputation as a s l u t. And you're lucky that none of these guys have tried to force you to do anything more... sooner or later you'll be with a guy that won't take "no" or "wait" for an answer.
For your own sake, slow it down. Trade the quantity for quality. Find one boyfriend who likes you for who you are, not the sexy dances or thrills you provide. Take it slow with him and see if you can stay in a relationship for at least a year. Talk with your mom about what's really important in relationships.
2007-08-15 10:33:20 · answer #2 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No-as long as you're not kissing on every guy you come across, that's good you're still a virgin-if you get pregnant, & have a child to raise, your "teen-age & fun life" is over & you may regret being a mother too soon.
2007-08-15 10:33:09 · answer #3 · answered by strange-artist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha. no. i am the same way. we just want to be sexy, feel sexy, and make guys WANT us..its like re assurance. i have a bf now and the only one I dream about doing that with is him, sexy lap dances, seductive kisses, whispering in his ear, just really sexual things...he LOVES it, and he says i am one of the most affectionate, loving, caring ppl emotionally & sexually. ;) just dont let hormones get the best of you. I make sure their is a limit i dont want to do anything i will regret.
2007-08-15 10:29:25 · answer #4 · answered by morena0kizzez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by what u typed 15 is too young to be in lingerie ect. but making out is not a problem
2007-08-15 10:47:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like an episode of that old MTV show "Undressed" to me........
if you have any doubts about it, it's most likely your subconscious telling you that you shouldnt be doing it....what you're describing is a gray area for alot of ppl because it's so close to you guys being completely naked......ask yourself this (and I know I'm gonna catch flak for this), is it the same as making out fully clothed or do you see a difference?
2007-08-15 10:29:53 · answer #6 · answered by Saiyanman3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that's probably a better alternative to sex. Just make sure you keep it at just making out though. If it goes further you could have major issues later on.
2007-08-15 10:28:07 · answer #7 · answered by John W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You should spend less time making out and more time doing your English homework.
2007-08-15 10:28:21 · answer #8 · answered by Joshua S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow... you dont want to be to proud of this,. you may get a bad reputation in school. but thats fine if you dont care what other people think
2007-08-15 10:27:17 · answer #9 · answered by drea D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong at all... unless you just want to turn him on so much that he can't control himself... then you are in trouble... just be careful...
2007-08-15 10:27:16 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋