i have never really done anything with a guy until recently... and im not very confident with my body . I get so scared when i do fool around with a guy is that normal? when will it go away so that im not ms. paranoia,id rather not have a relationship end b/c im like this if yah catch my drift
2007-08-15 10:15:19 · 7 answers · asked by Miss Casey 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just do what you enjoy and don't let yourself feel pressured
2007-08-15 10:34:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun,
i had the same problem untill i met my boyfriend. Befor i met him i had no confidence in myself. I hated what i looked like and thought i was fat. My boyfriend thinks im perfect ans keeps telling me it. He says im silly that i had such a low opinion on myself. Im now alot more confident with him and dnt shudder when he touches me. Having confidences really helps becasue you cant love someone if you dnt learn to love yourself.
you are totally normal. Dnt worry. another thing you could try, talk to him about hwo you feel. When he realises how you have no confidence, he will soon try to bose you up! trust me hun!
Good luck
2007-08-15 17:28:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very normal feelings. Just make sure that when you do 'fool' around ~ it is with someone well worth the adventure. If it is just a one night stand, you will probably be left feeling very used.
2007-08-15 17:22:08 · answer #3 · answered by what u talkin' bout? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I got like that with my boyfriend. I was so nervous when we first got together, but then he would make me feel better and then within a couple of months I got comfortable with him emotionally and physically. Now we're the best of friends. It just takes time.
2007-08-15 17:25:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um if you are uncomfortable with yourself he will know it and become uncomfortable himself. Love yourself first and then let some else love you.
2007-08-15 17:42:53 · answer #5 · answered by Mooney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time to gain confidence.
Don't rush things so much , take your time, nice and easy.
2007-08-15 17:21:09 · answer #6 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends on why you are unhappy with your body... is it unattractive?? do you have anything wrong with it???
just take it slow... and depending on your age, try something to relax you...
2007-08-15 17:21:56 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋