:( i duont wnna tell my parents about it. after all I was born in a REALLY strict christian family and they will ground me for like forever and wont let me see him again. yea im young (only 12 years old) but me and him cant be separated EVER........ He is non christian and i was so stupid too just....... PLZ HELP ME!!
2007-08-15 10:03:17 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are to young to have a boyfriend. What do you mean by you can't be separated? Don't do anything unchristian like with him. What were you so stupid about?
2007-08-15 10:11:27 · answer #1 · answered by Pamela V 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now that you are in a relationship with this guy, I would try to be an example for him so that he sees something in you. A lot of times we push people into religion and all we get is Christian haters. I think it is good to talk the talk, but more importantly to walk the walk. If you are standing up for things you believe in and loving people even when they are not so lovely, maybe he will notice that inward peace in you and want what you have. As far as your parents go, you probably need to tell them out of respect for them. If they find out on their own, they probably won't be too happy. If they tell you not to see him anymore, you need to obey them and understand they are just looking out for you. It doesn't seem fair, but that is life. I will pray that you make the right decision. Everyone has a different opinion and will probably confuse you if you try to take everyone advice. Ask God, He will let you know what you should do.
2007-08-18 20:58:32 · answer #2 · answered by cs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i seem to be an advocate for talking to parents about things like that.
i dont think you'll be able to have a heathly relationship if you aren't both christians, it is a problem.
but again...you are only 12, and its awesome that you have strong beliefs, i think he needs to too.
you're young, dont stress too much about it.
God will work everything out. but i do think you should consider talking to your parents, or youth leader, like a lady at a church that you may be close to, they're advice can help so much if you just ask them
2007-08-15 10:11:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Religion is a big problem around the world.That is why for me, religion stinks a lot.I don't have any and my life is extra happy.Sounds bad, for some, but is great for me.The world could be a better place if people were more open and stop paying attention to mundane matters.
2007-08-15 10:22:42 · answer #4 · answered by Mario Vinny D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think 12 years old is rather young to have a boyfriend.
2007-08-15 10:08:26 · answer #5 · answered by la buena bruja 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Miss wrong way, Honey slowly convert him ! Pray to Jesus for the holy spirits interaction ! Hopefully he will be the first of many !
2007-08-15 10:13:25 · answer #6 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
His religion is none of your or your family's business, it's even more intimate than sex. If you have such a big issue with it, I recommend you start dating christian guys. Wait, are you a troll?
2007-08-15 10:11:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're too young to have a boyfriend, regardless.
2007-08-15 10:09:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately you might have to dump him. my parents are roman catholic and had I dated anyone non catholic they would have fried me. now I date as I please OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO it's unfortunate but the most devote religious people so many times are the most closed minded, thick headed and ignorant. PEACE!OOOOOOOOOOOOO.
just remember: once you can support yourself you have to tell your parents to screw if they cant accept who you love provided he's good to you and takes care of you.Honor doesn't necessarily mean obey.
2007-08-15 10:10:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should have found out before you started going out.. if it wouldn't work out in the future, why keep going, besides your so young, you'll find tons of other guys!
2007-08-15 10:09:03 · answer #10 · answered by lilchikka2005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋