it's in a different city, so it will be all of my partners old friends. the thing is, I'm really nervous though (as I'm not too confident around new people)I don't want him to know that I am! Any tips?
2007-08-15 09:55:07 · 14 answers · asked by sarahpaul82 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Throw yourself in there - be friendly and talk to as many people as possible. if they are all arzoles then take advantage of the free booze (but don't go mad and start telling rude jokes/stripping on the dancefloor). if you get bored, start flirting with the older men - grandads and the like - and hanging out with the oldies. This will gain you brownie points.
In short - act like you already know them!
2007-08-15 10:00:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Buy yourself a really fantastic outfit that you feel amazing in (check with your partner if you like but make sure YOU feel absolutely stunning in it). If anyone asks what you do, look a bit surprised that they haven't recognised you as you are actually a famous model ... and walk tall and feel 'a million dollars'. Dance with anyone who asks you and have a wonderful day.
I did this once in exactly the same situation, was the best wedding I ever went to apart from my own but have to confess I didn't marry that particular guy. But we did have a wonderful time at the wedding - he loved my line of being a famous model even though it was total rubbish.
And don't don't don't get drunk before everyone else is legless!
2007-08-15 10:13:49 · answer #2 · answered by Sue C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think many people attend weddings and do not know others. Practice some lines like' How do you know the bride?' OR ' Do you live nearby?' to ask anyone standing around waiting interminably long while photographs are taken. All that matters is that you are going really for your partner. Ask questions if you cant think of anything else to say. Hopefully the food will be good.
2007-08-15 10:05:16 · answer #3 · answered by barthebear 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No do not get drunk it solves nothing and you earn contempt.
There is always someone in the same boat as yourself, several of yours friends partners will not have met the crown before so don't spoil a good day for yourself by worrying.
You are no worse than they are
2007-08-15 10:07:49 · answer #4 · answered by Scouse 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell yourself, this too will pass. Bear with it for a few hours and it will be the end of it. As for those you don't know, just say hi when you are introduced. What more can you say to people you don't know? Smile when it's time to smile and keep quiet when it's time to do so. Enjoy the food and say goodbye when it's time to go home.
2007-08-15 22:37:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing is, none of these people know you ... so they have not prejudged you. It's a fresh start with all of them.
Take a deep, calming breath, and hold your head up high. Smile, he's proud of you or he wouldn't take you along, so let yourself know that he wants to show you off!
Be friendly, courteous and outgoing as best you can. You may find that you absolutely love his friends!
2007-08-15 10:04:53 · answer #6 · answered by leysarob 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
some good advice If your not going to be upfront with it and it all goes pear shaped what then
you will be kicking yourself for not telling your partner in the first place
When you reveal these kind of things to a partner you will find they are so grateful to you for trusting them with the truth you will be amazed at the response
and be yourself
2007-08-17 15:13:41 · answer #7 · answered by Human Being Human 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are uncomfortable with that kind of setting, just opt out. There is no reason for you to be uncomfortable. Your partner probably wants to hang with his old friends, and if he has to worry about keeping you entertained for the evening, he will not do that.
If you still want to go, I'd go with what the first poster recommended, alcohol.
2007-08-15 10:02:41 · answer #8 · answered by dice 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When I am in an uncomfortable situation, I tell myself that I am the most beautiful and important person in the room and they are blessed by my presence.
I smile and speak to someone if they speak first of are close to me an i want to say something.
I know it comes off as conceited, bu i am very shy and awkward in new situations and around new people. I say these things to pick up my self esteem.
Try it and see if it works for you.
2007-08-15 10:01:53 · answer #9 · answered by † Seeker of Truth † 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Be yourself, chances are that you choose him because he is good person that makes you feel comfortable. His friends are probably a lot like him, that's why they are his friends. They will reach out to you and try to make you comfortable, I am sure they understand your situation and want you to feel comfortable joining in the fun.
Don't worry, it will be fine.
2007-08-15 10:06:28 · answer #10 · answered by Chuck 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋