I've been threatened!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?

Question

Please help me. I was on myspace talking to this boy that goes to my school. Nothing flirty just getting to know him cause I'm a freshman. So if your a myspace member you would know you comment on ppls pages bac and forth so anyways this boy sent me a message and when you read it start from the bottom thats the first message.


Why are uy doin this?
Why are u wantin to stalke me? :/
and ill stay away from Alec.

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Shu-hawn
Date: Aug 14, 2007 7:02 PM


Don't be. I've cooled down. You can have your turn.

Sooooo. I don't know you, but I want to. And yes, in that creepy, stalker kind of knowing.

Whatcha all about, Savannah? Obviously you're a drunk, because only drunks would admit they are taking a field sobriety test.

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Savannah WALKs_THE_LINE
Date: Aug 14, 2007 8:59 PM


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Im Sorry!!!!
----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Shu-hawn
Date: Aug 14, 2007 6:54 PM


Hey. I saw you at school for the last few days, and it just so happens that you're chattin' it up with my man.

WHAT"S UP WITH THAT?! Alec is prime meat, I know, but I own him!

So if you know what's good for you you'll stay away.

I'm Sean by the way.

Answer 1

They need to grow up.

Answer 2

First write him privately telling him what this person said.

Then write back to her: "Are you serious? Sorry, he never mentioned that he was seeing anyone. I didn't realize he was gay (going out with a Sean?) Girls don't spell it that way, do they? Does he know that you're saying things like "I own him!"? That's a little psycho, he doesn't seem like the kind of guy that would put up with that.

Anyway, I definitely don't wanna get caught in a cross-fire. I won't talk with him anymore if you're actually going to try and fight me or if you guys are actually dating, but threatening by saying things like "So if you know what's good for you you'll stay away." is a little much.

Peace!"


Good luck, and tell as many adults as you can if this continues and show them the emails. Parents love helping kids with stuff like that.

Answer 3

lol, he has no right to tell you to stay away from anyone unless he was an adult. By the way he sounds, he's at the mere age of 9. He's a guy anyway, what is he gonna do if you keep talking to Alec? Unless he and Alec are dating (>.<) There's no reason why you need to back off. He also sounds like he might want to date you, which could be why he's telling you to get away from Alec.

Answer 4

*Well we can't really help you, persay.
.I mean I'm not sure what 'really' exactly is going on here and then he/she mentioned to you that you admitted to taking the field sobriety test or something? Is there more to your story than meets the eye here or what?!!!! You have me confused like a mofo.!.

.Anyways....copy that conversation...print it out. Make sure you have the date and the time it happened and just go from there. I think that if you honestly feel your life is in danger, then you should be headed down to the police department and filing a report against this person. Especially since you know who the person is that's making the threat(s) towards you.
.You're better off recording what happened and reporting it, then waiting to report it, because when you wait you hurt your credibility.

.......talk to the higher ups.



good luck.

Answer 5

Pay attention to your gut instinct because it is a way to determine if your in a safety zone. When the hairs on the back of your neck start standing up then you know something is wrong. Have confidence that time is the best healer of all situations. So give it time and let go of the stress, you'll be alright.

Answer 6

High school! Enough said! geeze pay it no mind the guy seems like a big jerk but doesn't really seem like a big deal. I wouldn't worry about it sounds more like teasing than anything and if you really wanna find out if it were a threat just go to this guy Alec and find out whats up with this other guy. If you don't know just ask!

Answer 7

There is something wrong with both of them. Just stay away from them you are way better than that. If the guy was a man he wouldn't let his girlfriend make such a big deal out of nothing; actually he would see that his girlfriend is a psycho. Plus, even if you did like the guy and flirted with him, you did nothing wrong. Its his job to tell you he has a girlfriend and shouldn't do it.

Good Luck and you deserve better than having to deal with this.

Edit: WAit they are both guys? it might be a joke then

Answer 8

Okay, so Sean & Alec are guys and Sean "owns" Alec. So they are gay?

Sounds kind of childish to me. I don't think you've actually been threatened based on what I read. But perhaps you've learned your lesson about myspace, chatting with strangers, etc...

Answer 9

Don't give into this snotty litte brat. She is only trying to scare you. If you let her know she is bothering you, she won. Don't give her the control over you. You can talk to whom you want and you can see whom ever you want. Don't even worry about a thing she isn't going to stalk you she is just like you said making threats. Just ignore her, when you see her in the hall give her the stare down, she won't know what to do then.

Answer 10

Take the advice. Find someone else, if he dont like you then thats that. Its hard. But thats that and you have to realise that. I liked this girl like you like this boy and i was going crazy over her for 2 years now i dont bother wasting my time, with something i cant have. The sooner u realise that the better. Its hard but you can get over it. You have no other choice.

Answer 11

Keep these messages and if anything happens to you, make sure you show them to the school and the cops. Maybe it's already time for you to find some new friends. These friends sound like freeks to me.