why are alot of you people who reply to our question's about dog's so rude?

Question

does it ever enter the heads of you that maybe we actualy want a bit of friendly helpful advice and not just aload of insults?!?does it ever enter your head that maybe the ones asking the questions have been recomened this site for good advice or that like myself when i asked a question on monday that we cant get the help or advive we need from friends/family due to personal problems?not everybody breeding their dog is doing it for the money & not everyone has access to the information they need.im lucky enough to come from a family of breeders but due to the fact that my 5year old brother has cancer i cant get all advice i need from my family at the mo,due to the fact that they've more important things on their minds!!!its wrong of you to think that your better or have the right to insult people for asking questions,afterall isin't that more responseble than struggleling on their own?if you treat people like that they wont have the confidance to ask questions putting the dogs at risk

i understand that you proberbly get sick of people breeding for the wrong reason's or the fact that they know nothing but you can only put so much in to a question and the obvious thing's like the average gestation period for a dog is 9 week's and take them to a vet, would think you'd have guest we would already know that. in my last question i was asking for advice on stafford's and if they were differen't in particular! alot advice you get is conflicting so asking for extra can't hurt! and as for the fact that my brother has cancer you can't wake up one day and decide, i know... let's find out that my brother has cancer! if you've delt with that then you shpuld know you can't always time thing's to work around an illness!

Answer 1

Very sorry,and I appoligies for all rude people on this site.I always try to be nice and give out advise that will be helpful to anyone that is searching advise on a sick pet.Most on here seem to think everyone is just over breeding dogs for profit when this isn't true.I understand there are times that a pet can't be taken to a vet everytime it gets sick due to insufficient funds,or maybe the symptoms are urgent enough to seek a vet.If you can't get any results on here,you're welcome to e-mail me directly and I will help you if possible,as I've been breeding dogs for 11 years and my vet tells me I know just about as much as he does when it comes to identifying a problem .

Answer 2

I read your last questions and the answers you received and nobody was rude just honest. What is it with people? You get the correct advice and just because it is not what you want to hear, you claim the answerers were rude.

I have a hard time believing you come from a family of breeders or that you bothered to read anything because every book I have ever read on the gestation period of a dog basically states the same thing and they are all pretty similiar when they describe complications during the pregnancy and whelping, there is no conflicting advice, even a vet would be able to give you that info had you really taken the dog to the vet. I would also like to point out that a dog should not be bred until at least 2 years of age, not 18 months. There are test that can not be completed before then.

I can understand people having other things on their minds with a sick child but that also says to me that that if you were so preoccupied then you should not have bred your dog especially if you did not have the time or resources for this breeding. The timing was not right so you should have waited. Waiting for a better time would have been the responsible thing to do.

I do not think researching breeding on YA is at all responsible, I believe all research should have been done prior to breeding. IT SHOULD NOT BE LEARN AS YOU GO, regardless of your excuses.

We do get sick of people breeding for the wrong reason but more importantly we are sick of people breeding without knowledge. As for asking questions here all I can say is, just like in the books you claim you read, there is a lot of conflicting advice here on YA. If you do not bother to research or can't find help as you claim, how do you decide which advice is correct? Some advice that is given on this site is very dangerous and too many people claim to be vets and vet techs but they are not and if you follow the advice these people give you could do real harm to your dog.

Bottom line is YA should not be the place you do research on dog breeding. Everything you do in life requires knowledge, why should bringing life into the world be any different?

Answer 3

This site is about asking questions and receiving answers. Not about being nice to every single person who is asking a question that has already been asked the day before. If you can find your way to yahoo.com then I am sure that you can find your way to google or some other search engine. A lot of the questions I answer i google and find the answer right away. Also, it is hard to tell if the person is being rude or not, you can not determine their tone just by reading what someone said. On another note it is hard to believe that coming from a family of breeders, one of them would not have 5 minutes to spare and talk to you. You obviously had time to type up that whole question and add details to it. Besides people should already be educated about what they are getting themselves into. It is irresponsible to get the dog first then ask questions. It is unfair to the animal. A question like "where can I buy a cheap dog, and my dog has not moved in 3 days, is it dead" are just stupid. Most of the so called "rude" advice may not be said the way you would like but, it is right.

Answer 4

i think of the main suitable element you're able to do is write him some letters (save it expert) and make a log of all your grievances. whilst adequate is adequate, report a record with the police, and proceed to make a log. Video tape a number of it. The least you're able to do is report a noise grievance. As for the dogs......you have the desire to make certainly effective that they can't jump over the fence, or get into his backyard back, because of the fact then he can (and probable will) report a grievance against you. It sucks once you have acquaintances that refuse to be life like. If none of that works, then you certainly shouldn't could desire to refrain from letting him be responsive to that he's performing like a douche. good luck, and sorry to pay attention approximately those problems.

Answer 5

I looked at your last question and in my opinion, nobody was rude. They were simply stating facts. Telling you your dog is too young to be bred is not rude - IT'S A FACT!!
If you and your family have better things on your mind, like a sick brother, then maybe that was a good sign that you could not devote enough time to this dog and you shouldn't have bred her.
If you can't take the truthful answers, don't ask the question.

By the way, my five year old nephew DIED of cancer, so I know the situation very well. No, you can't time things around an illness, but an illness also isn't a license to be irresponsible. I helped my sister care for her child in the hospital and still managed to go to school full time and work a part time job, so an illness is not an excuse for ignorance nor irresponsibility.

Answer 6

I believe the excellent thing you can do is write him a couple of letters (hold it authentic) and make a log of your whole grievances. When sufficient is ample, file a report with the police, and proceed to make a log. Video tape a few of it. The least you can do is file a noise grievance. As for the dogs......You need to make without doubt certain that they cannot jump over the fence, or get into his yard again, due to the fact that then he can (and commonly will) file a criticism in opposition to you. It sucks if you have neighbors that refuse to be affordable. If none of that works, you then should not ought to chorus from letting him recognize that he is acting like a douche. Good good fortune, and sorry to listen to about those troubles.

Answer 7

I read your last question and I cannot believe that any person that comes from a long line of breeders in the family did not know the answer to that simple question. If you really (which I doubt) came from a long line of breeders and you were interested in breeding in the future, where is your notebook that you filled with important information (eg. such as how long a female dog is pregnant for?) If you are really such a fabulous knowledgeable breeder - why can't you spell correctly, why is your grammar terrible, and just how educated are you? What sort of showing have you done? What are the genetic results of your ***** and the sire? Breeding with a neighbor's dog eh? Cause he looks good?! What sort of championships are attached to your dog and the sire dog's families? To themselves? The reason that people were and are rude is because you have no business breeding - regardless of whether or not your 5 year old brother is sick or not! I am sorry that he is ill, but even if he was the healthies person on the planet, even if he was Christ reincarnated, you are lying about your family, their expertise, your expertise and knowledge about breeding. And that is why you got rude answers. I don't breed - and I know the answer to your question - I read too!

Also, I would never ever purchase a puppy from someone who is unable to communicate well in the written word. Lack of education means lack of knowledge - lack of knowledge means you are not qualified in any way shape or form to be breeding dogs.

Answer 8

I don't intend to be rude with anyone. At the same time, you sometimes need to make certain that people understand what you are saying.

I will reply to a LOT of questions about dog aggression. I've dealt with these issues trying to turn dogs around and I've evaluated Rottweilers to determine whether they should be put up for adoption, or not.

You then get people coming on here and saying that their dog has just BITTEN three kids, or two dogs and they are looking for advice, you have to get their attention.

Couple that with the people GIVING advice saying essentially, well I've watched TV and here's what they did. Or, I've owned a dog and here's what you should do.

Sorry if I vented a bit.

Answer 9

It is unfortunate that many people don't take the time to consider what may be going on in a persons life. Seems society just walks around with blinders on which gives them "tunnel vision". I've always believed that there is no such thing as a "stupid" question, if we knew the answer we wouldn't ask in the first place right? I've read many posts and find most are genuinely sincere and very helpful, but there will always be the select few whose communication skills are better suited for their pet rather than people. Don't be hindered by these few, just post your questions and after you scoop the poop aside I'm sure you'll find your answers.

Answer 10

I think it's mainly because people take care of their pets differnt so when some people hear about a dog without it's own bed and silver platter they freak, and there are those who are asking questions like "my dogs bleeding from its eyes and ears, i dont want to take it to the vet, what should i do." and frankley after seeing those post over and over some people become a little hsort tempered..

As for breeding your dog, if you cant get access to information, ask a vet or vet assistant, many will give you free advice. It really isn't something you should go into blindly.
I think the main reason people get ticked about people breeding their dogs, is because so many are getting put down and chances are at least on of your puppies will go to a family that does such.

Sorry about your little bro. Best of luck.

Answer 11

Many of us meanies are trying to help people realize that they ARE putting their dogs at risk, whether they like it or not. Also, no matter what is going on, you can always find a reputable breeder to call for advice, rather than hoping a pack of strangers will answer your question.

Personally, I find "rude" answers to be the ones that are irrelevant, stupid, or spewed nonsense - things along the lines of "ur dog is ghey" and "beat ur dog" instead of addressing the real issues. I'm guilty of being off-topic, but I have never been outright RUDE - not to my knowledge. Feel free to inform me otherwise.

EDIT: I know you can't plan an illness - my mom had cancer. But it's no excuse to not be responsible or to do your best. Some people are worse than others - both in asking dumb questions and giving dumb answers.