Shes a good friend but what can i do?

Question

I have a friend that i met last year, my freshman year, well it just so happens that her boyfriend went to a camp with me awhile ago and weve been talking ever since. Im better friends with him then i am wiht her, but she gets mad if i talk to him. And this summer he started sending me pics of himself and it was all in fun because weve always teased eachother like htat. well my friend saw the pics on his phone and got mad! I understand but i explained there is absolutely nothing more then friends between me and him and i would never do that to her, and its all true. I layed low for awhile not talking to him, but i miss him he was an amazing friend! finally i called him and she happened to be with him, and when he hung up i said luv ya like always the friendly way and supposivly she eard, but i dint know she was with him! Now she s mad at me and she just wont believe me! HELP!

She also treats him like crap, hes like a slave to her and it bugs me, but when i confront her boiut it she thinx taht im just jealous, im not jealous im angry that she thinx its ok to treeat him that way. I can tell it hurts him but hes convinced shes the one and doesnt wan to leave her!

Answer 1

Well hunnie your what the lame man would call a Fool in love! Yep, for one your not her friend she is an associated, because if thats how you treat your friends I hate to be your enemy. Also you love him more then her (notice how I didn't use that immature term of like its so, elementary school) and because of this you FEEL more for his situation, then hers, makes you an enemy in her yard. Ether way all three of you are completely out of sink with your feelings and its making a sad situation (their relationship) worse, all your guys relationships. It would seem thou she is the odd one out, meaning that she is the one fatherest behind emotionally, but then again this guys a jerk for being so close to you and still trying to make it work for her, but thats why romantic love is just a fantasy, while you guys are starting to feel geniune love (FRIENDSHIP!). So really the righter end to this situation is you with him, but then again your all playing a bad game with your hearts, but this is only a bad deal if you over 20 and still playing games like this. Maybe you should learn better what makes a geniune friend from this situation and move on and live your own life. She already did the leg work to get him one way or another, and besides he already cheated on her emotinally with you, so no telling were he'll draw the line even if he gets in a relationship with you. Ether way you cut it all three of you our dangerous at this point because your not treat, nor knowing how geniune relationships work. Not your fault really you are a child of a 75% divorce rate society.....