Are our women really that loose??

Question

I am Shanghainese man and have read many comments regarding our women. How loose and easy they are and so on. I am feeling sorry to hear that but same time, have heard from my own relatives and parents about the behaviour of our new generations of women who actually do behave like what the westerners mentioned. Have our women changed so much that they are losing their own self-respect?? Blackmailing is very common too among the Chinese women when relationships fails. So sad but true.

Answer 1

time have changed our world. if the olds have adverse observations among the young women of today, many would say there's a generation gap. but i would say, there is only the values gap. women before tend to be sensually conservative unlike women of today who are more open, outgoing and modern.
but intruders who are not invited should keep out.

Answer 2

YES!! Sorry to burst your bubble but it's true to a certain extent. My personal local driver when I was working and living in Shanghai, a 50 something Shanghainese man, told me the same thing. The women are becoming "bad" and blackmailing is indeed common when the relationship turned sour. This is especially so when the men are married and blackmailing them to keep the affair a secret from the wives are common practice in Shanghai/China.

The women just have no self-respect at all. Some are wonderful but some are just...................

Answer 3

Hello Liu Chung, sorry to tell you the truth, but your countrywomen ARE LOOSE!!! Take it from me, an English expat working in Shanghai. I have been here less than a year, and I am not embarrass to say I have f**k more than 2 dozens Shanghainese women. I don't have to pay for their services as they are not prostitutes but those I met at bars or pubs. Some are even office contacts who just want to have sex with a foreigner!!!

Frankly, I met many of those women from Malone or Long Bar. Easy women!! Chinese women are so keen to find out what we Whites have that the average Chinese men don't!!!

I know it sounds crude but it's true. Just accept the facts!!

Answer 4

There have been so much of debates in Malaysia whether to allow ladies from China to work as a domestic helper here. Most of the maid here are from Indonesia, where most of the employers are Chinese. We got a lot of protests from the women group and NGOs.
The mainland China girls are known as the "Dragon Ladies" here. The most feared by all the people here. They are so well known as the husband snatchers!
They will do anything to get a sugar daddy here.

Answer 5

This is the second question you asked here and it is similar to your first question, how many times do you want to repeat the same question again?

There are 1.3 billion Chinese in China, say only 1/1000 of them are good women and they are not Shanghainese, there are still quite many of them, I would say, why don't you just leave Shanghainese women alone.

If this's the reason that caused you in depression, you may need to seek for advices from doctors or move to other city for good.

Answer 6

You're describing gold diggers. I don't do any of the things you've listed. There are many other body issues we women have to worry about besides breast size. We have to worry about body weight, hair, skin softness, acne, body hair, body odor, and our facial features. You may crave sex from us, but we crave emotional intimacy, stability, and honesty. That is very difficult to find in a man, nowadays. Perhaps you should try dating a more humble, honest, and caring woman. You seem to be dating materialistic and manipulative women. We are not all like that.

Answer 7

Why is it 'bad'? In this forum, even American women are 'bad'. Why? Why can't a woman be sexually what she wants to be? No one, not one person, implied that the men they sleep with are bad. Is that because, maybe, it's not bad? It's a new millennium. Let people do as they will. If there is no victim there is no foul.

Answer 8

They have changed over the years.

Answer 9

My experience is the opposite. They still have a sense of self-respect - but when they come in contact with the capitalistic world and "american hollywood values", then they change. It becomes cool to look a plastic plastic glitter doll, and moreover, have a plastic doll behaviour.

It is rather sad, because the chinese used to have very much common sense on that one, and where able to be in charge of their own lifes.

Answer 10

i have no idea about chinese women but a merican women have no self respect and no morals when they are young... they later change after they realized that they behaved in a terrible manner...