What do you think of these signs?

Question

There's this gal that I like and have told her how I felt last year, but she said she just want to be friends. However, now I feel that some things have changed. Yet I do not know if she likes me now. The following are what she showed today, although yesterdays she also showed some signs:

- There are more eye contacts but then when I'm talking to her pals, she's like pretending not to look at me, although she's between two of us.
- Yesterday and today morning, she asked me if I got elected as the chairman of the students council. This morning she congratulated me, but no shaking hand. The way she talks seem rather excited. She shook my hand after her friends did so too. But, in front of her pals, she didn't seem too excited.
- My pen fell down (I sat a few inches beside her) and she took it for me, bending down/forward to take it. I'd take it as a friendly gesture though.
- She always joins in everytime any of her friend teases me. Like saying that I should pay her if she lost the thing she left in class.
- She borrowed one of my music apparatus for her orchestra practice.

She's more talkative with other boys though.

Answer 1

You know the cool thing about all this? That all this thinking, hard work, and devotion you put into finding these signs just shows how your really just not ready for any kind of relaitonship. Sorry its the way it is, your smart enough to understand that inorder for a relationship to work you have to be able to not only speak your mind, but also speak FORM YOUR HEART!!! So in other words it doesn't matter because if you don't even have the gull to stand up and talk to her about this then what hope is there for the relatioship when you have it, and it really actually matters that you do? Learn to be more behind yourself, learn to fight for yourself, learn to talk to a lady that you love so much, or else buddy think about it, your no good for her. I tall this to you because I think your smart enough to take it and run with it, becasue thats all you need to do, take all this bs out of the way, look her in the eyes, and let her know the small things you like so much about her, the big things, the things you could do for her, how good you could be for each other, all of it, because if you not ready to go that far, all it is attention you seek, and thats just selfish, sorry the way of the heart.... love isn't enough, its how we use that fire that makes things work, good luck!