I think the reason i'm the way i am is my gf, she's 26 is always busy with work. "So focused on her career", I mean she makes like 85k, but works 60 -70 hours a week. I make 50K and work like 35 a week. She never wants to do anything anymore. In college she wanted to go out drink, and have sex all the time. Now im lucky if i get it once a week. I guess I miss thse days, and thats y i cheated on her 3 times. Am i dumb or is it her fault
2007-08-15 02:37:33 · 13 answers · asked by MCK_23_L 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think i would be dumb to break up with her because shes hot as hell and every guy would love to be with her...and she makes sweet $$. I do love her a lot though
2007-08-15 02:48:17 · update #1
you are dumb, nothing justifies cheating
you should be proud of your girl to be so passionate about her career, things change dude. she's not always going to be the young college girl wanting to get drunk and have sex all the time, shes grown up more now, and it sounz like she deserves much better than u!
2007-08-15 02:47:01 · answer #1 · answered by josietheninja 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's your fault! If you had a brain at all, you probably would have confronted her about her actions and the way you felt before you cheated on her. Good luck telling her what you've done now, though. She'll have no sympathy for you, I can promise you that.
2007-08-15 02:45:04 · answer #2 · answered by Pink_lemur 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its your fault for being such a selfish bastard. You could talk to her, or at least try and make some amends, but instead you complain to strangers about the fact that you ain't getting any sex. Well, DEAL with it! Obviously you don't love this woman, and she deserves better.
2007-08-15 02:43:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
YOUR DUMB!! If your not getting what you want from a relationship , END the relationship. Cheating is just another term for , i,m having a hissy fit, therefore i,m gonna hurt you.
2007-08-15 02:46:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's a career woman, what can you do?
You are following two different paths now. It's time to move on and find someone else who can give you what you want?
2007-08-15 02:45:58 · answer #5 · answered by DomNix 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not her fault you cheated! Stop being an a$$ and break up with her...
2007-08-15 02:45:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up, u guys are going in different directions.
2007-08-15 02:48:24 · answer #7 · answered by Loris Ann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want what you want. She wants what she wants.
You don't want the same things.
Its causing you to reationalize and excuse yourself for engaging in the worst kind of betrayal. (Her freezing you out is the second-worst kind of betrayal.)
Be honest with yourself. Move on.
2007-08-15 02:47:03 · answer #8 · answered by chocolahoma 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I AGREE with the first answer!
2007-08-15 02:45:48 · answer #9 · answered by Mike T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dumb and a philander.
Cheers!
2007-08-15 02:45:28 · answer #10 · answered by nom de paix 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋