3 years ago i met this guy we never spoke but everytime we would see each other we would stare and look straight in each other eyes but thats all we did neither of us had the guts to ever approuch one another we had this strong connection the year went by without anything happening the next year i did not go back to study and i have not seen him since help its 3 years i cant forget him my heart is broken i think about him every minute i last week i went out with this other guy when he kissed me i burst out in tears and told him i dont think we should go out again cause i felt like i was betraying that other guy i want him to have been the one to kiss me at night i cry my self to sleep cause everyday i hope ill see but i never see him
2007-08-15 02:27:45 · 5 answers · asked by ANGEL234 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that it would be a good idea to talk with a professional counselor about these feelings. To feel so intense about a relationship that never was, is a little overwhelming.
2007-08-22 09:46:55 · answer #1 · answered by Randy C 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let me get this straight. You are crying over a guy you haven't seen for 3 years and before that all you ever did was look at him? How do you know for sure he was ever interested in you in the first place? I'm sure in the last 3 years he has moved on and you should too. Life goes on. Your imagination is working over time over something that never was and in all likelihood never will be. Confront the situation by trying to contact the guy you are "in love" with to see if he has any interest in you, or is otherwise involved. You live in the real world, not fantasyland. You can't develop a relationship with a memory.
2007-08-22 21:09:39 · answer #2 · answered by soupkitty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on get a grip, you had your chance, you let him leave without knowing how you really felt.3years is a long time .and you still feel that way. You don't have him,but that doesn't mean you'll never find a person that can love you. Leave the past there(get professional help) it's not healthy to be still thinking of someone from 3years. You must move on sweetheart. No you can't go on like this, stop move on.
2007-08-23 00:41:50 · answer #3 · answered by Here Kitty Kitty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are crying because you regret not stepping up to him and the fantasy of what could have been is more appealing that the blood and guts reality (like say he would have bad breath or mistreated his pets kind of thing).
Move on and learn from this. Be emotionally available and step up the next time you meet someone that makes your eyes meet.
2007-08-20 20:00:28 · answer #4 · answered by scarlettboca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should try to contact this other guy and let him know you feel. if this isnt possbile then maybe you should think about moving on, and if its meant to be then i am sure you will meet again.
2007-08-15 02:37:51 · answer #5 · answered by sgreenslade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋