well me and my boy freand of 4 months borock up about 3 weeks agow and i want to be his freand still but he wants my 'goods' and i still really lik him so i want to, but i still want to save my self 4 my husbund wen i get older
so any was i still really lik him and lik tackin lik well did wen we went out but dont want to do any thing with him
any help would be really helpfull so please help
o and by the way he alreddy has a new gf so im really sad so try 2 be simpthetic about ur answer
ps i loved him 4 so long and dont now wat to do :(:(:(:(:(:(:(
i cryed 4 days after we brock up and i NEVER cry im not sapost 2 im my dads daugter lol
2007-08-15 02:17:16 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hay guy who stusk through f me and told me about my spelling(lol) thx so much i wish i could chouse all of u bu t i cant so thx so very muck and by the way i lik drama and he brock up wit me 4 her and a day later thay got together so yea thx agan
(the spelling it how i spell in im and i got so used 2 it i use is all the time)
2007-08-15 02:53:11 · update #1
wow, turn down the drama
2007-08-15 02:19:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
What of your question I can read, it sounds like he didn't really love you, he just wanted to have sex. Don't try to be friends with him, because if you do end up doing anything, he'll make up an excuse and his new girlfriend will be mad at you too.
If you really "loved him 4 so long" you would know that he doesn't feel the same way.
Crying is natural. Sometimes guys cry too.
Advice in a nut shell: get over it and get a spell checker.
2007-08-15 02:30:20 · answer #2 · answered by kecr101 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you guys were on the same page with the whole friend thing he wouldn't be after your "Goods". He just wants to have something on the side of his new girlfriend. And by the way how much did he love you if he found a new girlfriend in 3 weeks. I would move on because all you will be to him from now on is just a piece on the side.
2007-08-15 02:21:28 · answer #3 · answered by prettyblueeyes101010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're young, move on from this guy. He is just going to use you and throw you away. Avoid him until you feel strong enough that you can be around him and not feel anything but friendship. He has a gf so you should move on to. Find someone who will respect and love you the way you deserve.
Save yourself for your husband. That's the best thing you said so far.
2007-08-15 02:22:01 · answer #4 · answered by asldfkjdfj 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, all I can say is do what is best for you. Honestly, if you want to save yourself for marriage that is an awesome thing and I totally respect that, but he doesn't seem like the guy for you. There are tons of guys out there who will respect that decision. But, if you really want him back, just think about it a lot first and be sure that he's worth it.
2007-08-15 02:25:38 · answer #5 · answered by pretty*kaitilyn*2009 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on from this jerk. He already has a new girlfriend and he is trying to be with you on the side..? That isn't the type of guy you want to be with. Find someone who will respect the fact that you want to save yourself for marriage, and won't try to persuade you otherwise, someone who will like you and not other girls.
2007-08-15 02:28:24 · answer #6 · answered by Chelley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need is to learn how to employ proper English. This phonic-based-street-talk is at best irritating. The weight of your message is directly related to the manner in which it is delivered. You make people not care about your dilemma by using poor language skills. Conquer the basics, and then you can attack the esoteric.
2007-08-15 02:28:32 · answer #7 · answered by mrjones502003 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
crying is an emotion of expression and release and it is perfectly normal -- so cry if you have to and FEEL your feelings. it's important.
meanwhile, do not do anything (such as having sex) with this guy!! he would be using you, and do you really want that?
"NO" is a word which needs to be used when you mean "NO".
saying "yes" when we mean "no" is a bad habit. and those who say yes when they don't mean it, turn around one day and wonder "why do I do everything for others, and no one does anything for ME?"
hon, take care of YOU.. having sex with an old boyfriend who has a new girlfriend, isn't such a swift move.... you could end up pregnant... or worse.
take care, and enjoy life while you are young.
and say NO when you feel you need to!!! hugs
2007-08-15 02:22:58 · answer #8 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh God i have a terrible headache!your spelling caused it anyway the scumbag wants you for your "Goods" only dont be stupid enough to give in to him besides he went ahead to get himself another gf 3 weeks after you broke up with him shows he didnt love you in the first place.Girl move on you deserve better.ps go work on your spelling to be able to communicate better.
2007-08-15 02:37:36 · answer #9 · answered by Lilian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a GF!!! Don't even think about doing anything with him. If he really cared and all then you guys wouldn't have broken up. He's just trying to be a player.
2007-08-15 02:24:40 · answer #10 · answered by Exquisite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmmmm..... i wouldn't worry about having a boyfriend at your age. i would practice my grammar, my spelling, and everything else you will need to be a productive human being.... words like FREAND and HUSBUND and SIMPTHETIC are not words used in the American language. Grab a book... study and don't worry about guys.
2007-08-15 02:22:45 · answer #11 · answered by Joannie W 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋