there's this girl in my school who topped our school and is an all rounder too. though i act better than her she got selected for the skit by voting . i feel so demoralized and pathetic .wt do i do? earlier i had a lot of confidence in my self but now i feel worthless and am not able to concenterate in any thing else . tell me wt do i do?
2007-08-14 23:50:20 · 4 answers · asked by chocolate1 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
when i was in high school, I was the most talented girl you could have ever seen. Bright, artistic, the best in the Drama class, etc..when they had the most talented contest, all my friends said I would have won it hands down, and even my teachers..but, it went to someone who's father and mother were very giving to the school...she was nothing special..and even my teachers told me it was a damn shame...which only goes to show, it was all about politics..so hold your head up high..you will have the time to shine again,..when it REALLY matters...
2007-08-15 00:25:39 · answer #1 · answered by MotherKittyKat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to remember the saying 'There will always be someone better than you'. This is true. You cant be perfect, and neither can that girl.
It is unfortunate that it was chosen by votes, but this is something very common in school. A lot of the time things will seem like a popularity contest (and it is true). You cant do anything but get over it. Your time will come where your hard work will pay off, and there is someone that will do better than that girl that beat you.
There will be plenty of other times in your life where you come 2nd best or lose.
2007-08-14 23:55:52 · answer #2 · answered by bridgette.dude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to handle any kind of rejection, disappointment is to succeed, hold you head up high, this will pass, yes it hurts, but remember your a good person, you can't see this now , but these little setbacks make you stronger,,it gives you character, don't be so hard on yourself. so when those negative thoughts keep playing in your head, knock them out there only thoughts , it doesn't mean that 's the way you are.
success is the best revenge, keep your head high, don't let them see its tearing you apart, your worth it.
2007-08-15 00:23:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your real worth will always come through. Never give up on yourself. It may take time but you cannot hide a light in the dark.
2007-08-15 00:00:44 · answer #4 · answered by violeo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋