Is this wrong or do other guys do it too?
While using the urinal or taking a shower at the gym, I'll often catch myself glancing at the other guy's equipment. I don't get turned on by it - I'm just curious. People always wear clothes - hiding everything. It's kind of like a bloody car wreck - you just have to look. I'll look at somebody's hair or eyes to see what color they are, or I'll look at someone's ears to see if they're pierced. Sometimes I'll look at other guys to see how big they are, or whether they're circumcised. I know this is a taboo subject, as is nudity. I'm curious if most guys do it and just don't admit to it, or if I'm just overly curious.
I'm sure if I had access to the women's lockerroom I'd glance at them too.
2007-08-14 23:48:06 · 15 answers · asked by Matt 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
You are overly curious
We don't want you around our locker room either, glancing at us.
Haven't you heard?
~It's not the size that matters, it's how you use it.~
Which is a quality you can't judge by looking at it in the men's room.
I personally don't care about someones sex unless it's something I want to share with them.
So, how do you feel when you realize another guy is looking at your stuff?
2007-08-17 09:13:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
I am a woman, and I would say that most people, although many who've already answered vehemently deny it, look at some time or another out of curiosity. I know sometimes I'll look at other women and think that they have a nice size or shape in a particular area that I would like to have some day. If I can encounter that person casually later, I might ask questions about their fitness routine, so that maybe I can work on that for myself. I think we're all curious about what's underneath other people's public exterior (at least, some other people's). My husband did describe one time another guy who not only was obviously checking him out in the shower, but also commented on tattoos that he wouldn't have seen except in the shower, while they were both in a communal shower. I think that one can glace furtively, but there should be no discussion specifically about that, and you should avoid talking with another person while the two of you are nude together, because if it's not someone you already know very well, it might make them uncomfortable.
2007-08-15 04:49:35 · answer #2 · answered by JenV 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you see some one that is OK.But you need to draw an line somewhere make sure it will never turn to staring.And never touching or being touch.Don worry about comparing at all nobody pick out there own anyway.Wish nudity was not associated with sex so much but considered natural and acceptable in most cases,
2007-08-17 03:51:55 · answer #3 · answered by hillman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In the 8th grade in Jr Hi, right before school begain in the fall, I decided to shave off my pubes. When we had our first PE class, the coach told us that this year we all have to take showers. I was not too concerned about this, as I figured that the first person to comment about my shaved pubes will be labeled as a "queer" for looking. Needless to say, there was 1 kid who tried telling everyone about what he say. Just as quickly, he was ridiculed, and not me.
Moral of this story: in the communal showers, get in, soap up, rinse down, and don't let your eyes wander as if you are shopping!!!
Hope this helps.
2007-08-15 06:29:22 · answer #4 · answered by rc 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why does it matter to you what equiptment other men have unless you're gay. By glancing you might give the wrong impression unless you're gay. I'd keep my eyes where they belong so others don't get the wrong impression. It's a good way to get beat up.
2007-08-15 04:04:44 · answer #5 · answered by flash 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Your ?
I'm a female, and I once had a job working
with men where it was very hot in the summer.
Most of the men slept nude.
I never looked at them.
To me, to look would have been an invasion of
their privacy.
What are you looking to find?
Something you don't have?
2007-08-15 00:07:49 · answer #6 · answered by elliebear 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
the locker room is not the appropriate place to observe the human body.
people don't go there to be studied.
i can understand your curiosity.
the body is a pretty cool thing.
but you just can't look unless you've been invited to do so.
2007-08-17 16:23:36 · answer #7 · answered by wanabbetter 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're just curious , it's human nature and ATD I strongly disagree with and I quote , '' Haven't you heard ? ~ It's not the size that matters , it's how you use it ~ '' --- you are obviously not telling the truth , so please read this article ( the whole article , not just a page ) --- see source
2007-08-18 13:49:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh hm... eyes on your own junk there sonny...
and remember shake it more than twice and you are playing with it...
i'm not saying it wrong, but don't you think that it would make others uncomfortable...
besides, who cares how big, small, cut, uncut or whatever someone else.s penis is...
2007-08-14 23:57:27 · answer #9 · answered by sam 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I did it when I was a kid in high school. I guess your still there.
now; no inappropriate touching, ok. lol.
2007-08-15 00:01:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋