how do you ask someone out? how did YOU do it? (w/ actions n words, etc.)
2007-08-14 23:05:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
btw, i'm a . is it wrong for a to be asking a guy out?
2007-08-14 23:17:49 · update #1
btw, i'm a gal. is it wrong for a gal to be asking a guy out?
2007-08-14 23:18:17 · update #2
The same way you ask your guy friend to go bowling.
2007-08-14 23:11:57 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends are you male or female? If boys want to ask me out I will always say yes provided they ask me in a casual way like friends and then let it develop, theres no rush as nature takes ove after a you get comfortable being around someone, you need to flirt during this time though otherwise it will be too late, like mucking around and teasing and playful hitting and stuff, but once a guy carries on about my looks and compliments me all the time and buys me things all the time like flowers it is such as turn off, it feels like he's sucking up and trying to buy me
2007-08-14 23:18:17 · answer #2 · answered by fargoffyakunt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't! Asking somebody out officially is so outdated! It also brings up a whole lot of expectations. My ;boyfriend' and I have been together for almost 5 years. Neither of us has ever 'cheated' and we are actually getting married next week. And not once did he utter the words 'Will you go out with me?' Not even to ask me out on a date. We are together because we choose to be together, not because of some outdated way of making somebody feel guilty to go out with you. If the girl really wants to be with you, she will be. Without you having to ask her! Same goes for the guys!
2007-08-14 23:13:47 · answer #3 · answered by Minimoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be confident, be direct, try to have an interesting conversation with her to make sure that she is interested, then just ask. Most of the time when guys have asked me out they have a specific plan in mind, they ask for example "would you like to have a coffee and get to know eachother a little better"? Primarily the factors involved in gaining my interest were as follows:
I liked the guy generally or had interest in him of some sort
Interest in him was compounded by the fact that he was fun, easy going, confident, and interesting.
He asked me out no strings attatched.
No pick up lines, no manipulation just straight foward communication, girls do not like to be tricked into going out with a guy.
Big factor was trust, if the guy seemed like he played games, i was not interested in him any more.
Also the girls who do like to play games, and like to be manipulated by "players" are not the kind of girls you want more than a one night stand with anyway, a decent girl to date, will want you to like them for who they are, and if you are just looking for sex, then find a girl who wants the same...they are out there.
Good luck, happy dating.
2007-08-14 23:17:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 09:53:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a guy and I will tell you that most guy's, not including myself, feel as though a gal would be moving to fast. If the guy is nice to you and seem's to admire your apinion, don't ask him out just tell him that you realy like him, you don't have to ask him out, just let him know that you like him, if he likes you back he will tell you.
2007-08-14 23:38:13 · answer #6 · answered by Geramy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just say would like to go out for a coffee sometime or whatever activity you have in mind. If you are dating and want to ask her to be your girlfriend just look into her eyes and ask her if she would like to go steady with you! Works a treat!
2007-08-14 23:12:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look her in the eyes and say: Wanna chill together sometime? You should already have an idea of what you want to do. Becuase thats usually the next question :)
2007-08-14 23:12:28 · answer #8 · answered by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, I've never asked anyone out, I've always been asked out.
Things i've heard guys say are:
"You and I have been friends for awhile, but recently i've really grown to like you as more than a friend. do you think that you'd like to take this a step up?"
"we've been hanging out a lot lately and I've felt like we've gotten really close. will you go out with me?"
2007-08-14 23:17:14 · answer #9 · answered by Weesy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask the person in the most simple way. "Are you free to come out tomorrow?" Effective yet sincere.
2007-08-14 23:09:02 · answer #10 · answered by Vodka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋