2007-08-14 22:03:40 · 9 answers · asked by ms rowie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't buy a car without test driving it first.
2007-08-14 22:10:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
The thing that hurts most is remembering the special feelings and intimate moments you had with an ex. Memories will rush in certain situations even if you are with another guy. Things said and things done will remind you of past relationships whether good or bad. Every time you end a relationship you'll want a fresh new start. Try saving something for the special person who actually appreciates you and you know wants to be your future. Always remember that lots of guys may hint that they want to go to the 2nd level or make future plans so that you'd think he's serious about you, all that just to get in your pants.
Take care!!!
2007-08-15 05:15:43 · answer #2 · answered by she 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, being a guy, this would pertain to my girlfriend, but the principle is still the same. I'm highly in favor of this practice in my own life, but always recommend others use their own judgment. I'm a 33-year-old single male who has a libido that hasn't decreased since my teenage years, so if I didn't favor this practice, I would be a pathetic 33-year-old single virgin ready to climb to the top of a bell tower with an assault rifle, a pathetic 33-year-old multiple divorcee paying alimony & likely child support to several wives & children, or a pathetic 33-year-old married man who is still with the first woman he had sex with, miserably working myself into an early grave while she didn't lift a finger to help me, all the while viewing "'til death do us part" as a goal. So, in order to maintain sanity & keep from making even worse mistakes, I'm immensely glad I've engaged in pre-marital sex.
2007-08-15 05:20:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
No. But if you are in favor of pre-marital sex, give it a think again.
2007-08-15 05:33:44 · answer #4 · answered by sv 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have known enough guys, who's goal was to get notches on their bed posts etc and then the dump and run to the next girl that I would say that any woman that has sex before getting married (married after dating for atleast 15 months or more.) is selling herself short!
One guy I knew in University would lie, cheat, anything just to be that "first time" with a girl and then he would dump her in a few weeks and start a new conquest. I had girlfriends (ex by then, he was already dating another) coming to me asking why he wasn't returning calls etc. What a loser!
2007-08-15 05:09:30 · answer #5 · answered by Pilgrim in the land of the lost 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I must be absolutely honest, the first premarital sex I had was against my will. My future husband sodomized me and continued until well after we had been married. This guy was very abusive and cruel, but I got wise and left him. (His name was STEVE)
My wonderful hubby of 12 years (Rabbit MAN), we had talked about sex before marriage, and both of us had decided that we would.
If only because I was worried that because of my past and not being made love to in the correct fashion, that I would not be able to please him.
So, we did have premarital sex, and he who had only one other partner before me...showed me how to please him in the most wonderful of ways.
HOWEVER, this is NOT for everyone. IT must be between consenting adults and those whom will hold no grudge against the other, nor use sex to their advantage.
Normally, I do NOT approve of this, but in MY case...it was necessary.
2007-08-15 05:32:25 · answer #6 · answered by Midnight Winter WOLF 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well not a boyfriend :) That would depend on how old you are tho. Personally i think you gotta try the shoes on before you buy them. But only when you are old enough to need shoes! This is just my preference im not suggesting you do anything.
2007-08-15 05:09:59 · answer #7 · answered by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, even i'm guy, when i got the chance to do sex with the girl i love but me never did it...
Because i believe that if u really love one people then the first time we must save it until we are married so we will not regret at the future...
Hope u know what i mean...
TakeCare...
2007-08-15 05:11:44 · answer #8 · answered by WindWalker 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
nope... i dun like the idea... thats my opinion though...
2007-08-15 05:09:28 · answer #9 · answered by kchang 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋