We have had a long distance relationship for two years. He is always telling me what I need to do, but yet he is always angry. I am very forgiving of him when he is critical of me for stupid things I do, but his commits hurt me too. He never believes anything I tell him....he gets into these rages and repeadily tells me that I am lying and I'm not. In the beginning of the relationship he was a little jelous but not like he is now.
I may have answered my own question...
2007-08-14 18:37:54 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
"Issues"...that word cracks me up everytime I hear it. What does he mean by "issues"? He sounds to me like he's got mental problems and it would probably behoove you to remove yourself from the relationship. I would hate it if his "issues" caused him to physically hurt you. He's already doing mental play on you. Jeez...I'd run as fast as I could. Nobody needs to be treated like this guy is treating you. He's probably jealous because you don't have the same kind of "issues" he's got. He needs some mental help in a bad way and with a quickness. Good luck to you sweetie. I'll send you some running shoes if you need 'em.
2007-08-14 18:50:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry. He is a rageoholic. That is he is a weak and insecure person who only feels strong when other people fear him. He needs professional help, but he won't get it, because first he has to realize and admit that he has a problem, and second, he has to WANT to change. Since none of those things are true, he will not change. I hope he doesn't know where you live. Call the phone company, and see if you can block calls from his number. Also write down all of the pertinent information, especially threats he has made. Be as specific as possible. If later you want to get a restraining order (now might be good) you will be asked why.
If there is any way you can separate yourself from this person, do so ASAP, and forever. He will be sorry, he will apologize, he will promise to change. None of that will happen. Then he will blame YOU. I hope you can make a clean break.
2007-08-15 01:57:02 · answer #2 · answered by roscoedeadbeat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
staying in a relationship that does more harm than good is not healthy for you . so get out while you still have the chance because in these kind of relationship things can go from sugar to **** without warning !!!!!!!!!!!!! i would know i went through the same thing .
2007-08-15 01:45:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GIRL...read your question... then read it again. DO us all a favor no wait, do yourself a favor and leave him. You can't help him nor be his therapist. He needs help and you can't give it to him if he doesn't want it. You can't let yourself be demeaned nor talked down to! NEVER!!! The next rage he may hit you... FORGET THAT!
Leave him before it's too late. Don't say I didn't tell you.
2007-08-15 01:48:32 · answer #4 · answered by egomezz007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should let that one slip back into the pond.
hes not Mr right.
sounds like someone that would eventually kill someone they say they" love".
at least you've had a look at what ya don't want.
you deserve to have a great guy that will be good to you and you good to him.
keep up the search!!!!
through Mr control and feel bad back.
thank god for the catch and release program.
2007-08-15 01:45:12 · answer #5 · answered by becker-lisa@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a man gets close and tell you he has issues.... LISTEN and maybe you should just move on.
2007-08-15 01:56:28 · answer #6 · answered by lucy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to aim your big brown eyes elsewhere!!
this guy is a loser.. LOOOSSSEEERR!!! like jim carey said.
I think you did answer your own question.
2007-08-15 01:42:13 · answer #7 · answered by crazycovey21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did answer your own question. He DOES have issues.
2007-08-15 01:42:14 · answer #8 · answered by skyelynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seems to be getting obsessive of you. Dump him. Your are too good for him girl!
2007-08-15 02:00:03 · answer #9 · answered by frenchie23702 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's what you get with Internet relationships. never take them seriously.
2007-08-15 01:43:31 · answer #10 · answered by Shon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋