I know I shouldn't give any time of my day thinking about my ex, but I just can't figure out his intentions. Please help!
My ex and I broke up 3 month ago. The breakup was sudden but reasonable. Since the breakup, we have not contacted each other.
About two months ago, my ex started asking my friend about me -- how I've been doing and etc. About a month ago, he confessed to my friend that he'd been wanting to get back together with me.
Last week, my ex finally called me. He said he's been wanting to talk to me but didn't know if it was OK for him to contact me. He also said he wanted us to be friends and hang out sometimes. I agreed to be friends with him and we shook on it amicably.
It's been a week, but I have not heard from him since. Did he really wanted to be friends with me? Or did he contact me just to put closure to what we had?
What do you think?
2007-08-14 17:34:20 · 5 answers · asked by Sweetie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Closure?? Doesn't sound like closure. Could be he just wants to have you on the back burner, just in case........ It could be any number of reasons, but I can almost assure you that getting back together with you is not foremost in his mind. Don't get your hopes up or you'll be disappointed. He just wants to come around once in a blue moon, or not at all. I would keep him at a distance and not let him back into my life.
2007-08-14 18:13:44 · answer #1 · answered by wildflower 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me at least when i break up with a girl witch only hap pend twice so far i feel horrible and want to get back to the girl once but i cant for i feel iv done something rong and on his side he might just want to be friends with u or get back to gether with u.. but hes trying to be ur friend now but he cant for his mind is thinking about when u 2 daited and he dosnt want to do the habit of what u guys did and make a mistake and hurt his self even more u. if anything he loves u and he wants to give u another chance...... thats my side of the answer at least.
2007-08-14 17:53:35 · answer #2 · answered by Robert P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the relationship is honest,then don't think,it may take time but finally will be back.
if it is not really honest then also no need to think it's ok
2007-08-14 18:13:50 · answer #3 · answered by gaurav 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't sound very stable. If he calls again, you should let him know that you will fondly remember your relationship with him, but have moved on.
2007-08-14 17:52:21 · answer #4 · answered by Kal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he doesn't know what he wants. i'd see him if you feel like it and have nothing else going on. But i'd keep going on with your life and being open to meeting new people.
2007-08-14 17:46:04 · answer #5 · answered by suz665 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋