i have a wonderful boyfriend but sometimes i just want some space
when we go on a date sometimes i cant help but want to leave, sometimes i just dont want to hang out with him, is this normal??
he wants to come watch a movie at my house but i just hate that idea, i just feel horrible all the time abt feeling this way
sometimes i am crazily in love with him, the next, i dont want to be around him anymore
i have noone to talk to abt this and i feel lyk its killing me inside
hes 2 years older than me and i think he mite feel pressured to do things that his friends hav done lyk have sex and stuff but im still young and i dont think im ready
please please please
im so confused
2007-08-14 17:22:05 · 7 answers · asked by confusedxxgurl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
being in a good relationship is about learning to give each other there space, if you don't think he'll respect that then he isn't worth your time.
2007-08-14 17:30:53 · answer #1 · answered by Greg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same exact problem with my boyfriend. He was four years older than me, and seemed like a good boyfriend on the outside. Sometimes I felt very passionate about him, but most of the time I just had this overlying feeling that I had to get away from him. He always wanted to hang out with me, but I never wanted to hang out with him. I felt like he was kind of clingy and always wanted to be around me, but I had more fun without him. After a year and half of dating, I finally broke up with him this summer. It's just not worth being in a relationship with lukewarm feelings. I'd rather be totally in love every second of being with somebody or not be with anyone. It's just a waste of time for everyone involved, and some day you might find somebody that rocks your world. Do you still want to be with this guy when you find him?
2007-08-15 00:38:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be older but you are more mature. Tell him you need time to yourself and you have things you would like to do like maybe hang out with some friends. It just will not work out if you feel this way unless he changes.
2007-08-15 01:04:04 · answer #3 · answered by saturn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's no chemistry i suppose.. if u dont wanna be around him.. i dont think u really love him.. because like u say, u always feel this way.. maybe the 2 of u should sit down n talk to each other.. OR take a time out n discover whether or not u really love him.. =)
2007-08-15 00:30:56 · answer #4 · answered by ch0colate.syrup 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U dont have to be with ur bf all the time. Maybe he's just not giving u enough space to do ur own thing and hang out with ur friends. Explain this to him and he will understand.
2007-08-15 00:29:35 · answer #5 · answered by Abby Jo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be confused...your not ready and you admit to it. If you choose to continue seeing your bf, talk to him about boundaries, and the need for some space. If you choose to break it off tell him your just not ready to commit. You don't have to do anything that you don't want to do.
2007-08-15 00:35:11 · answer #6 · answered by lvchic_702 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh man, trust me i know you liked ur bf alot but ur not that into him that much..it might be ur 20 or sumthin..ur not ready to commit a deep relationship w/ur bf.hes a kind of guy who juz want to be w/you and spend time w/u coz he know deep down in his heart he love you so much..but i guess ur not ready for any that yet.so need time and u need space coz u think its choking you..its normal..but then again ask urslf if ur ready any for that..its always ur decission that matters.. goodluck! enjoy life..=)
2007-08-15 00:36:48 · answer #7 · answered by gurlNextDoOr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋